Rumer Willis just had a revelation of sorts. The 26-year-old realized that when Ashton Kutcher started dating her mom Demi Moore, when Kutcher was 25 and Moore was 41, her future stepdad was one year younger than she is today.

Willis admitted in an interview with Access Hollywood Live how overwhelming the situation would be for her if she was in Kutcher’s shoes. “That would be like me meeting someone who already had three teenage kids. Kind of going into that situation was crazy.”

Kutcher and Moore started dating in 2003. They were married from 2005 – 2012. It must have been a bit odd for Rumer, who is the oldest of the three daughters from Moore’s marriage to Bruce Willis, because Kutcher is only ten years older than her.

The actress also discussed the approach her mother took when she first started dating Kutcher, “They were just hanging out… my mom has always made how [my sisters and I] feel about situations the most important thing. I think it was more, her going, ‘Hey, this is my life and these are my kids and my priorities. So if you want to come and kind of join our crazy clan, this is what I already have kind of built.'”

Of course Kutcher is now engaged to actress Mila Kunis, and the couple just had a baby girl named Wyatt in September. So does Willis still speak with her former stepdad? “I reached out to him when he [and Mila Kunis] had the baby, which is so awesome. I saw photos of her. She’s very cute.”

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Willis is currently out promoting her upcoming film, Always Woodstock. The movie’s tagline, “When Neurotic, struggling songwriter, Catherine Brown’s life in New York City falls apart, she is forced to confront her past when she spends the summer at her childhood home in Woodstock, New York, learning that becoming successful means becoming your true self first.”

Always Woodstock is currently playing in select theaters.