Paula Patton is clearly thriving since filing for divorce from Robin Thicke. The ‘Blurred Lines’ singer is no doubt licking his wounds since realizing his marriage really is over, but admits he was a liar and has now stopped such counterproductive behavior.

“I changed, and I got a little too selfish, a little too greedy and little too full of myself,” he said, adding, “I’m a man. I messed up and I had to lie for a while, and then I stopped lying…That was actually good for me because I was tired of lying.”

Robin Thicke and Paula Patton were high school sweethearts who married in 2005. After they split, Robin tried desperately to woo her back–even writing love songs for and about her in his latest album, Paula. The album even included one song called ‘Get Her Back,’ The album–like the marriage–was a flop.

These days, however, Paula Patton is anything but failing. She has been spotted recently in New York City dressed in what some are calling ‘rock star style.’ Presently shooting a fashion campaign for Ellen Tracy, she is the celebrity ambassador for the brand.

We are thrilled to announce our STUNNING new brand ambassador, the talented #PaulaPatton http://t.co/oLEH4PWiCU pic.twitter.com/trjX6iBCVq

— Ellen Tracy (@EllenTracyNY) September 23, 2014

It was back on October 3rd that Paula Patton filed for divorce from Robin Thicke. She is asking for joint custody of their four-year-old son.

“Everything is good between Paula and Robin,” a source told E! News. “It really is amicable and they’re getting along.”

Even though some sources say Paula has a new man in her life, E! reports that she is single, and that her number one priority is her and Robin Thicke’s child.

While it’s sad to know that Paula and Robin’s marriage didn’t survive, it’s plain to see that Paula Patton is doing well. Hopefully Robin Thicke will continue to pick up the pieces of his life, too, and they will work together for their little boy’s benefit.