Tori Spelling recently met up with her husband’s ex-wife to talk about what it felt like to be cheated on. Dean was married when he met Tori as was Tori. For a while the couple had an affair in secret, but eventually divorced their spouses and married each other.

Now that Dean has also cheated on Tori, she knows what his ex-wife was going through during the affair and she decided to apologize to her.

She met up with her and offered her apology, but when she returned home to tell Dean about it, he was less than impressed.

Dean had prepared a romantic evening for he and Tori while she was away at the meeting and when she returned he had gotten her a card and flowers.

What should have been a great night between the two of them turned into another big fight.

“You got me flowers and wrote me a beautiful note,” Spelling said on the show. “It’s just, the timing is just bizarre because she just handed me a note that you wrote her.”

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“Why would she do that when you’re going to talk about Jack…,” McDermott asked. “Why would she bring up stuff between her and I?”

Jack is Dean’s oldest son by Mary Jo.

Tori explained to Dean that she and Mary Jo had talked about more than just Jack, making Dean even angrier.

“She wanted to show me that in her mind, you guys didn’t have a bad relationship,” Tori explains while Dean becomes angrier by the minute.

“It’s a lie…I don’t know what to tell you, babe,” Dean insisted. “The whole thing about having her on the show too—the more she comes across is as this wonderful, loving person, people are watching going like ‘Yeah what the f–k is Dean’s problem?'”

He added, “I gave her a great life…she’s f–king crazy. She’s f–king delusional, now I’m starting to get really mad.”

This recent fight is just one of many that the couple has been involved in recently.

Dean is tired of looking like the bad guy and has even announced that he is quitting the show at the end of the season in order to have some privacy.

Do you think Tori was right to meet Dean’s ex?