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While it’s not uncommon to hear of a parent disowning their kid for coming out as gay, it is unusual to hear of a grandparent disowning their adult child for rejecting a gay grandchild. This is exactly what happened, though, according to a letter that was posted online.

A man wrote his daughter, identified as Christine, a scathing letter after she kicked out his grandson for coming out as gay. The woman apparently referred to her son as an “abomination” and said that his lifestyle goes “against nature.” FCKH8.com, a website that promotes gay rights with its clever t-shirts, posted the letter below to their Facebook page. According to Yahoo, FCKH8 spokesperson Luke Montgomery confirmed that the letter is real.

Dear Christine,

I’m disappointed in you as a daughter. You’re correct that we have a “shame in the family”, but mistaken about what it is. Kicking Chad out of your home simply because he told you he was gay is the real “abomination” here. A parent disowning her child is what goes “against nature.” The only intelligent thing I heard you saying in all this was that “you didn’t raise your son to be gay.” Of course you didn’t. He was born this way and didn’t choose it any more than he being left-handed. You however, have made a choice of being hurtful, narrow-minded and backward. So, while we are in the business of disowning our children, I think I’ll take this moment to say goodbye to you. I now have a fabulous (as the gays put it) grandson to raise, and I don’t have time for heart-less B-word of a daughter. If you find your heart, give us a call. – Dad.

So far the letter has received more than 15,000 likes on Facebook, where many posters have responded in a positive way. Ernie Nelson-Truk said, “Good job, Grandpa. I am a veteran, and, part of the reason I served was to support the rights of EVERYONE in this country. I applaud your guts in making, what had to be, a VERY tough decision. I am also straight, but I support a persons right to be who they are.”

What do you think of the letter? Respond below.

Letter images via Facebook

Dad Disowns Daughter After She Rejects Gay Kid: Read the Letter
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  • http://thisone phil miller

    I’m curious as to Why is Dad’s brand of bigotry is being considered more honorable than his daughters?
    Both father and daughter are disowning a child because they are intolerant of something that makes them ashamed of their child.

    • Rick

      If you read the father’s letter, you see he offers her an “out.” If you have a change of heart, we can be father-daughter again as before. The mother offers no such out to her son. He’s just out of her life for good. That to me is a big difference and is a credit to Gramps. (Who sounds like a nice guy trying to teach his daughter a lesson: What’s sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander.)

    • DK

      You miss the point. The mother rejected the boy for what he is. He cannot change that. The father rejected his daughter to teach her a lesson about what she did. He was making a point to the effect of,”How do you like it?” The boy is a victim. The mother is her own worst enemy. Someone had to get through to her.

    • mv

      Because this childs mom is a biggot!

    • mv

      ..

    • Chris

      The daughter is not a child, she is an adult who is failing her child.

      • Brian

        Chris,

        Really? How is she failing her child? The child is gay? So what, parents need to stop blaming themselves if a child is gay. Its not ur fault. That is who they are! Support them and love them its ur child for heaven sakes!

  • MT

    Both were wrong. Mom and grandpa………
    We don’t comprehend what is “gay”… It is different in many. We all need to understand, accept, and continue loving everyone no matter their stand on the subject… In time, we all will learn at different levels. BUT, family is family. Short, fat, thin… we are family.

  • Gary

    Both are wrong, family is family, you stick by them and protect them no matter what

  • Barbara

    the grandfather should stay out it and i think the mom did the right thing to many are just accepting theses freaks and it’s time someone took a stand against them …..

    • Allison

      What the hell? HE IS A CHILD. Where the heck do you expect him to go? How the hell do you know how it is to be gay if you aren’t even the one experiencing the feelings he has? You are just a heartless person if you think he chooses to be anything. All you’re doing is assuming and don’t even know how it is to be a gay teen. You’re just being a troll and talking out of your ass when you don’t even know HALF of the fear he is going through. In the moment of being scared and vulnerable his MOTHER chooses to turn her back on him. That is just wrong, and so are your horrible views. Don’t like the gay people? FINE. But don’t go around preaching that it’s okay to dump underage children on the curb because of something they can’t control. Keep that hate inside of your black heart.

    • Teresa

      What a moronic thing to say. Grandpa was 100% correct. This CHILD deserves a loving and accepting parent. The “freaks” are those like you who are judging someone whose decision had no bearing whatsoever on you. Get over it!

    • C.S.

      While your worried about freaks, maybe you should be worried about close-minded ignorant bigots like yourself. Gay people are not freaks they are human beings with feelings just like you and I. It is between them and what religious entity they served to pass judgement and how they see fit to live the lifestyle of their choosing. I simply see this Grandfather looking out for his grandson’s best interest, and as the parent of this child’s mother he has every right to come down hard on his daughter because he may have not raised her that way. Since your worried about standing against gays why don’t you go join Westboro…I’m sure they have an opening for you Barbara.

    • Danielle

      and I think you should suck it, but we all can’t get what we want.

    • Mantis

      Dear Barbara. I’ll say it and not give a fuck. If you die tomorrow, it would be for the better. I truly wish I could straight kick you in the teeth, but unfortunately I will never get the opportunity. I despise you, you disgust me, and I wish many bad things upon. Bye

    • jay

      YOU’RE THE FREAK BARB

    • Edward

      Amen Barbara, i am proud of the mother for standing up

      • Buck Finster

        Good for you Edward and for you Barbara. Do not accept those who are purveyors of death and spiritual destruction. They are absolutely morally corrupt and spiritually insane. The people who have been given the power to become the Sons of God (true Christians) are not filled with hate. We love life while they embrace and promote behavior that leads people to death. We are disgusted with people who are trying to teach our children that it is okay to embrace behavior which is spiritually fatal to them. Damn rights we want to protect our children from spiritual destruction and the surest way to do that is to physically eliminate homosexuals from our society. God ordained in his Law that homosexuals should be taken outside of the city and stoned to death. Because we, as a society, have failed to do this, homosexuality is growing more and more rampant. We hate the fact that they are pushers of ‘death’ and we believe it is an abomination that homosexuals that their advoctaes have the unmitigated gall to bring us to task for that. God has unequivocally said that those people who defile and continue to defile their temple (their body) by homosexuality will be destroyed. We are fighting a spiritually fatal moral disease while they are advocating the acceptance of this spiritually fatal moral disease. We hate death and all those who promote things which lead to the spiritual death of millions of people. Such people live in darkness. The light is shining in the darkness but the darkness does not comprehend or understand the light. They are lost to the coming destruction and we take offense that they would forcefully educate our children to believe that their moral disease is not a moral disease and that it is not spiritually fatal for all who embrace it. We hate homosexuals and transexuals no more than any normal person would hate to have a black mamba having the free reign to go about uncontested within our children’s schools or upon our city streets. Right headed people would quickly kill creatures of death just as they would quickly kill a lion in the streets of Los Angeles or New York or Philadelphia or Dallas, Texas or Dallas, Oregon. They would do it to protect the population from being killed or destroyed. They are blind and cannot see the destruction that they advocate but that doesn’t mean that true Christians must be as blind as they are. I don’t ask them to believe in God because it is already evident that they have no respect or belief in God at all. God wants for them to have life. Messiah came to the world to give people life and so that they might have life more abundantly. They come bearing death and they think we should not do all that we can to destroy them? They and what they purvey is a spiritually fatal disease that not only brings death to the body but also to the spirit. It is right and just and correct that we hate the demons under whose control they have allowed themselves to be. Their fate was sealed before the world was because they were incorrect abominations and assaults on the principles of existence and of life. In due time they shall all be cast into a burning lake of fire and we only seek to not see any human persons taken along with them. I pray that they will become enlightened and see the demons that control them for what they are and for what they desire to happen to them (their utter destruction) so that they will be able to repent and become an advocate and messenger of light and life instead of promoters of the deaths of men, women and children who are the targets of the demons who they unwittingly allow to dwell uncontested and in peace in their temples.

        • http://webpronws/technology patty

          Go to bed Buck..Please read your Bible again.

          Hi Buck,
          I have to let you know that what you write is incorrect, I am a true Christian and I often meet many people who have found the Son of God as being the most hypocritical. Such as yourself! You can promote what you read in the bible, as you have, but you are leaving OUT a lot of scripture that states otherwise. When reading scripture, you will also find that many of the people in the Bible have taken many wives and in today’s world that is against the law, but yet it was okay back then. When you read the Bible, it is all about YOUR interpretation, just like going to a Saturday service and listening to one Pastor and then going to a Sunday service and hearing another Pastor…the message is to be the same, but you hear two different points of views or interpretations. I know many gay/lesbian people that are Christians and behave and act more like Jesus, than people like you who want to be Christians but DO NOT act or behave like one. I will begin to pray for you and I will have my other Christian friends from the real Body of Christ pray for you as well. I would like to tell you what I can gather from your writing, BUT it is not my place to Judge you or anyone else…as it says in the Bible. You are to Love your neighbor, as you would Love yourself and above all..the way you Love Jesus. I EXALT Him and GLORIFY Him, he is the King of Kings and the Lord of all Lords. Amen and God Bless. May You Rest in Peace

        • pam savage

          Buck…I could not even finish reading this narrow-minded, self-righteous bunch of single minded jibberish you wrote on this one. I cannot honestly believe that you can , in any realm, call yourself a christian. You spew so much hate and judgement, that is everything that goes against what God says of love and forgiveness. How can you justify your animosity?? God is love, and love is patient and kind, it does not judge or ridicule. I feel very bad for you and all of the hatred that you have in your soul. Whether you want it or not, I know that you need prayers….a whole slew of them. Your soul is in jeopardy. You harbor such stringent and angry feelings…that doesnt come from my Lord. You really need to stop typing and start praying. I found myself in the beginning of this conversation angered with your bigotry and now I find myself afraid for you and worried about your salvation. I am not one to be superior but I do know that God is Love and you my friend are spewing so much anger…WOW

    • TDB

      A freak. The only freaks I can see are the people who’d kill all homosexuals even though they were born that way.

    • pam savage

      Barbara, You know what…I know people. 99.9% of women have either thought about, dreamt of, fantasized over, made plans to , or lived out their fantasies of being with a woman. You remind me of a friend I had at 15 years old that thought that masturbation was disgusting and swore she never even had touched herself “down there”. She was full of shit and shame and so are you. You call them “freaks”, at least they KNOW what they want. Start searching your own soul frigid woman. You speak too harshly to not have an internal desire or fear…just think about that

  • dlabelle

    If this letter was a t shirt I would gladly buy it and proudly wear it. Thank you grandpa. We need more grandparents like u. I m a grandparent and have a gay cousin and I love him. I. Am memaw belle shame on that mom how could she do that. Lets print that letter on a t shirt and help raise money for for PFLAG. God bless us all

  • Larry

    Good for her! I am not religious, but “gay” people are messed up in the head. They do nothing for this country but cause problems. It will be a great day in America when these MENTAL ILL persons’ rights are taken away.

    I forgot, we live in America that accepts and goes out of its way for idiots.

    • yourmotherinc

      I think you’re confusing the word “gay” for “Congress”.

    • ke76nt

      What is disgusting is a bunch of bigoted soul-less fools who think are incapable of understanding the psychological harm this woman has done to her son. The grandfather did exactly what was needed to be done to show her how it feels to abandon a love one.

      I know a lot gay people who have served this country in the military honorably which is more than I can say for some of you clowns who call yourselves Americans.

      Finally, I also know a lot of gay people who would kick the living crap out of you so-called tough guys and not blink twice in the process. And please don’t call yourselves Christian because there is nothing Christ-like about treating kids that way!

    • brian

      Prove that they cause problems. If you can’t provide proof behind your statement, you shouldn’t even say it at all. I do agree that America does go out of its way for idiots. But instead of just saying that statement, I have proof..and it’s you. Congratulations for proving that your one of those ignorant idiots that America accepts and goes out of their way for. I applaud you.

    • TDB

      Please read. Homosexuality is NOT a mental illness. There’s no cure. God made them that way.

      http://communities.washingtontimes.com/neighborhood/steps-authentic-happiness-positive-psychology/2013/apr/14/homosexuality-choice-modern-science-says-no/

    • pam savage

      Larry, because a person has a different view than you does not make them insane. For the record I am a heterosexual mother of 6. I dont know if you are or not, but you sound as if you have a fear of people that see life differently than you. Everyone has their own opinion of right and wrong. It is a personal opinion, and not one that any of us have room to judge. If you have a homophobic fear (which is what it sounds like to me), maybe you need to deal with your own insecurities or maybe delve into your past to find out where your fear began. If anyone needs pshychological help…it may be you. Find out WHY you feel such anomosity…just a suggestion

    • pam savage

      Larry, if you think that America goes out of its way for idiots, maybe you should move to a country that you feel is more supportive of your needs. You obviously are one of the idiots

    • Brian

      Larry I think u should check in first!

  • Scott C

    Really? You ‘disown’ your daughter for her ‘disowning’ her son… I see that the apple doesn’t fall that far from the tree. Love your daughter, show her how to love….hatred begets hatred and you sir are only perpetuating it.

  • Paula Parice

    This was not written by a grandparent. It’s written in print, the handwriting of a young generation. Grandparents, those born in the 40s and 50s, and early 60s ALL write in cursive. This is a hoax.

    • Phil

      you can be born in the 70 and still have a grandchild. I was taught cursive in school but I print most everything. could be real. but then most people would also use a computer to print a letter these days and skip writing it all together.

  • Tom

    This is almost as important as Snooki’s baby bump. Thanks for including this news!

  • Jan

    Sounds like the nut didn’t fall far from the tree?
    Like father like daughter?
    They all three need to be in a locked room till they all make up.

  • John Landtroop

    I simply cannot understand why so many “Christians” are so filled with hate!!

    Grandpa, Godspeed. Grandson, you are loved beyond measure!

    • Buck Finster

      You’re absolutely morally corrupt and spiritually insane. The people who have been given the power to become the Sons of God (true Christians) are not filled with hate. We love life while you embrace and promote behavior that leads people to death. We are disgusted with people who are trying to teach our children that it is okay to embrace behavior which is spiritually fatal to them. Damn rights we want to protect our children from spiritual destruction and the surest way to do that is to physically eliminate homosexuals from our society. God ordained in his Law that homosexuals should be taken outside of the city and stoned to death. Because we, as a society, have failed to do this, homosexuality is growing more and more rampant. We hate the fact that you’re a pusher of ‘death’ and it is an abomination that you have the unmitigated gall to bring us to task for that. God has unequivocally said that those people who defile and continue to defile their temple (their body) by homosexuality will be destroyed. We are fighting a spiritually fatal moral disease while you are advocating the acceptance of this spiritually fatal moral disease. We hate death and all those who promote things which lead to the spiritual death of millions of people. You live in darkness. The light is shining in the darkness but the darkness does not comprehend or understand the light. You are lost to the coming destruction and we take offense that you would forcefully educate our children to believe that your moral disease is not a moral disease and that it is not spiritually fatal for all who embrace it. We hate you no more than any normal person would hate to have a black mamba having the free reign to go about uncontested within our children’s schools or upon our city streets. Right headed people would quickly kill creatures of death just as they would quickly kill a lion in the streets of Los Angeles or New York or Philadelphia or Dallas, Texas or Dallas, Oregon. They would do it to protect the population from being killed or destroyed. You are blind and cannot see the destruction that you advocate but that doesn’t mean that true Christians must be as blind as you are. I don’t ask you to believe in God because it is already evident that you have no respect or belief in God at all. God wants for you to have life. Messiah came to the world to give people life and so that they might have life more abundantly. You come bearing death and you think we should not do all that we can to destroy you? You and what you purvey is a spiritually fatal disease that not only brings death to the body but also to the spirit. It is right and just and correct that we hate the demons under whose control you have allowed yourself to be. Their fate was sealed before the world was because they were incorrect abominations and assaults on the principles of existence and of life. In due time they shall all be cast into a burning lake of fire and we only seek to not see any human persons taken along with them. I pray that you will become enlightened and see the demons that control you for what they are and for what they desire to happen to you (your utter destruction) so that you will be able to repent and become an advocate and messenger of light and life instead of a promoter of the deaths of men, women and children who are the targets of the demons who you unwittingly allow to dwell in peace in your temple.

      • http://webpronws/technology patty

        Hi Buck,
        I have to let you know that what you write is incorrect, I am a true Christian and I often meet many people who have found the Son of God as being the most hypocritical. Such as yourself! You can promote what you read in the bible, as you have, but you are leaving OUT a lot of scripture that states otherwise. When reading scripture, you will also find that many of the people in the Bible have taken many wives and in today’s world that is against the law, but yet it was okay back then. When you read the Bible, it is all about YOUR interpretation, just like going to a Saturday service and listening to one Pastor and then going to a Sunday service and hearing another Pastor…the message is to be the same, but you hear two different points of views or interpretations. I know many gay/lesbian people that are Christians and behave and act more like Jesus, than people like you who want to be Christians but DO NOT act or behave like one. I will begin to pray for you and I will have my other Christian friends from the real Body of Christ pray for you as well. I would like to tell you what I can gather from your writing, BUT it is not my place to Judge you or anyone else…as it says in the Bible. You are to Love your neighbor, as you would Love yourself and above all..the way you Love Jesus. I EXALT Him and GLORIFY Him, he is the King of Kings and the Lord of all Lords. Amen and God Bless. May You Rest in Peace.

      • brian

        Narrow-minded much?

    • Buck Finster

      You’re absolutely morally corrupt and spiritually insane. The people who have been given the power to become the Sons of God (true Christians) are not filled with hate. We love life while you embrace and promote behavior that leads people to death. We are disgusted with people who are trying to teach our children that it is okay to embrace behavior which is spiritually fatal to them. Damn rights we want to protect our children from spiritual destruction and the surest way to do that is to physically eliminate homosexuals from our society. God ordained in his Law that homosexuals should be taken outside of the city and stoned to death. Because we, as a society, have failed to do this, homosexuality is growing more and more rampant. We hate the fact that you’re a pusher of ‘death’ and it is an abomination that you have the unmitigated gall to bring us to task for that. God has unequivocally said that those people who defile and continue to defile their temple (their body) by homosexuality will be destroyed. We are fighting a spiritually fatal moral disease while you are advocating the acceptance of this spiritually fatal moral disease. We hate death and all those who promote things which lead to the spiritual death of millions of people. You live in darkness. The light is shining in the darkness but the darkness does not comprehend or understand the light. You are lost to the coming destruction and we take offense that you would forcefully educate our children to believe that your moral disease is not a moral disease and that it is not spiritually fatal for all who embrace it. We hate you no more than any normal person would hate to have a black mamba having the free reign to go about uncontested within our children’s schools or upon our city streets. Right headed people would quickly kill creatures of death just as they would quickly kill a lion in the streets of Los Angeles or New York or Philadelphia or Dallas, Texas or Dallas, Oregon. They would do it to protect the population from being killed or destroyed. You are blind and cannot see the destruction that you advocate but that doesn’t mean that true Christians must be as blind as you are. I don’t ask you to believe in God because it is already evident that you have no respect or belief in God at all. God wants for you to have life. Messiah came to the world to give people life and so that they might have life more abundantly. You come bearing death and you think we should not do all that we can to destroy you? You and what you purvey is a spiritually fatal disease that not only brings death to the body but also to the spirit. It is right and just and correct that we hate the demons under whose control you have allowed yourself to be. Their fate was sealed before the world was because they were incorrect abominations and assaults on the principles of existence and of life. In due time they shall all be cast into a burning lake of fire and we only seek to not see any human persons taken along with them. I pray that you will become enlightened and see the demons that control you for what they are and for what they desire to happen to you (your utter destruction) so that you will be able to repent and become an advocate and messenger of light and life instead of a promoter of the deaths of men, women and children who are the targets of the demons who you unwittingly allow to dwell in peace in your temple.

      • http://webpronws/technology patty

        Hi Buck,
        I have to let you know that what you write is incorrect, I am a true Christian and I often meet many people who have found the Son of God as being the most hypocritical. Such as yourself! You can promote what you read in the bible, as you have, but you are leaving OUT a lot of scripture that states otherwise. When reading scripture, you will also find that many of the people in the Bible have taken many wives and in today’s world that is against the law, but yet it was okay back then. When you read the Bible, it is all about YOUR interpretation, just like going to a Saturday service and listening to one Pastor and then going to a Sunday service and hearing another Pastor…the message is to be the same, but you hear two different points of views or interpretations. I know many gay/lesbian people that are Christians and behave and act more like Jesus, than people like you who want to be Christians but DO NOT act or behave like one. I will begin to pray for you and I will have my other Christian friends from the real Body of Christ pray for you as well. I would like to tell you what I can gather from your writing, BUT it is not my place to Judge you or anyone else…as it says in the Bible. You are to Love your neighbor, as you would Love yourself and above all..the way you Love Jesus. I EXALT Him and GLORIFY Him, he is the King of Kings and the Lord of all Lords. Amen and God Bless. May You Rest in Peace

    • Buck Finster

      You’re so wrong. You’re absolutely morally corrupt and spiritually insane. The people who have been given the power to become the Sons of God (true Christians) are not filled with hate. We love life while you embrace and promote behavior that leads people to death. We are disgusted with people who are trying to teach our children that it is okay to embrace behavior which is spiritually fatal to them. Damn rights we want to protect our children from spiritual destruction and the surest way to do that is to physically eliminate homosexuals from our society. God ordained in his Law that homosexuals should be taken outside of the city and stoned to death. Because we, as a society, have failed to do this, homosexuality is growing more and more rampant. We hate the fact that you’re a pusher of ‘death’ and it is an abomination that you have the unmitigated gall to bring us to task for that. God has unequivocally said that those people who defile and continue to defile their temple (their body) by homosexuality will be destroyed. We are fighting a spiritually fatal moral disease while you are advocating the acceptance of this spiritually fatal moral disease. We hate death and all those who promote things which lead to the spiritual death of millions of people. You live in darkness. The light is shining in the darkness but the darkness does not comprehend or understand the light. You are lost to the coming destruction and we take offense that you would forcefully educate our children to believe that your moral disease is not a moral disease and that it is not spiritually fatal for all who embrace it. We hate you no more than any normal person would hate to have a black mamba having the free reign to go about uncontested within our children’s schools or upon our city streets. Right headed people would quickly kill creatures of death just as they would quickly kill a lion in the streets of Los Angeles or New York or Philadelphia or Dallas, Texas or Dallas, Oregon. They would do it to protect the population from being killed or destroyed. You are blind and cannot see the destruction that you advocate but that doesn’t mean that true Christians must be as blind as you are. I don’t ask you to believe in God because it is already evident that you have no respect or belief in God at all. God wants for you to have life. Messiah came to the world to give people life and so that they might have life more abundantly. You come bearing death and you think we should not do all that we can to destroy you? You and what you purvey is a spiritually fatal disease that not only brings death to the body but also to the spirit. It is right and just and correct that we hate the demons under whose control you have allowed yourself to be. Their fate was sealed before the world was because they were incorrect abominations and assaults on the principles of existence and of life. In due time they shall all be cast into a burning lake of fire and we only seek to not see any human persons taken along with them. I pray that you will become enlightened and see the demons that control you for what they are and for what they desire to happen to you (your utter destruction) so that you will be able to repent and become an advocate and messenger of light and life instead of a promoter of the deaths of men, women and children who are the targets of the demons who you unwittingly allow to dwell in peace in your temple.

      • http://webpronws/technology patty

        Hi Buck,
        I have to let you know that what you write is incorrect, I am a true Christian and I often meet many people who have found the Son of God as being the most hypocritical. Such as yourself! You can promote what you read in the bible, as you have, but you are leaving OUT a lot of scripture that states otherwise. When reading scripture, you will also find that many of the people in the Bible have taken many wives and in today’s world that is against the law, but yet it was okay back then. When you read the Bible, it is all about YOUR interpretation, just like going to a Saturday service and listening to one Pastor and then going to a Sunday service and hearing another Pastor…the message is to be the same, but you hear two different points of views or interpretations. I know many gay/lesbian people that are Christians and behave and act more like Jesus, than people like you who want to be Christians but DO NOT act or behave like one. I will begin to pray for you and I will have my other Christian friends from the real Body of Christ pray for you as well. I would like to tell you what I can gather from your writing, BUT it is not my place to Judge you or anyone else…as it says in the Bible. You are to Love your neighbor, as you would Love yourself and above all..the way you Love Jesus. I EXALT Him and GLORIFY Him, he is the King of Kings and the Lord of all Lords. Amen and God Bless. May You Rest in Peace

  • ? DJ

    WHAT HAPPENED TO OUR OWN INDIVIDUAL RIGHTS AND THOUGHTS? HOW MANY OF YOU HAVE SAID FROM TIME TO TIME, “I’LL NEVER GO SEE THAT MOVIE BECAUSE I CAN’T STAND HIM/HER” NEVER KNOWING OR EVEN MET THE PERSON OF YOUR DISLIKE. THIS PC BULL ABOUT THE CODDLING AND FULL ACCEPTANCE OF QUEERS IS ONE OF THE THINGS WEAKENING OUR COUNTRY. MALE QUEERS ARE THE WORST WITH THEIR “FEMININE” ATTITUDES; IT IS REALLY SICKENING HOW THEY FLAUNT IT. MEN ARE DISGUSTING THAT WAY, WOMEN NO WHERE NEAR AS OBNOXIOUS. THEY PRETTY MUCH KEEP THEIR FEELINGS TO THEMSELVES AND THEIR PARTNERS. THOSE “PRISSY” GUYS WHO ARE EITHER “PRETTY BOYS” OR SO FAT AND UGLY THEY COULDN’T GET A DATE WITH A FISTFUL OF C-NOTES TURN MY STOMACH, ESPECIALLY WHEN THE WOMEN FAWN OVER THEM LIKE THEY ARE ONE OF THE GIRLS.

    • Buck Finster

      I agree with you. Homosexuality is an abomination and is a direct line to spiritual death and yet it is being sold as ‘acceptable’. Since when is it acceptable to promote self destruction?

      If I went into a school and encouraged teens to commit suicide or advocated that there is nothing wrong with suicide I’d be run off campus by the liberal school board. Yet they want it to be taught that homosexuality is an ‘acceptable’ lifestyle when in reality it is a ‘deathstyle’.

      • brian

        You know…The one annoying observation about all the comments about this article or articles of the sort is that there is no proof behind them. For example yours… Does being homosexual promote self destruction and lead to spiritual death? How so? Deathstyle? Come on now…

      • pam savage

        Here you go again… comparing physical life to spiritual life. Every time I find a comment by you, I get my panties in a bunch. I dont even have to look at the name…I know it’s you. If you inspire or coerce to do physical harm to themselves, you are an accomplice. Spiritual salvation is none of your business, that is on every individual alone. How can you even compare life situations (convincing an individual to take their life) to afterlife situations, which by the way you have no control over…(whether you think you do or not) You were not designated as an omnipotent, immortal judge. You are a sinful human, born into sin to make a choice. Just as every other sinful human. Their choices should not be your concern. Worry more about the evilness in your own soul and focus on YOUR salvation. I only hope, for you, that Our Father doesnt judge you so harshly. You are a very opinionated man, verify within your soul, and with God, your purpose. I would be willing to bet my life on it, that you were not sent here to condemn people for not seeing your point of view. You certainly are not spreading the word of God, or His love, by your own sinful opinions

      • TDB

        Spiritual death? Abomination? Do you realize what you’re saying? I also must ask what does it say about being a bigot. I’m not judging you, I’m merely pointing out facts. While it does say that gays should be put to death. It also says that any kid who disrespects their mother or father should also be put to death.

        For everyone who curses his father or his mother shall surely be put to death. He has cursed his father or his mother. His blood shall be upon him.” (Leviticus 20:9)

        So if you’re following everything in the Bible I guess you’re for killing children as well. I hope you never talked back to your mother or father.

        • pam savage

          People blow my mind at their recap of scripture. If they are so knowledgeable why do they not understand that the difference between the old and new testament was the justification of Jesus Christ. All the laws and rules changed once He died for our sins. Study your scripture before you try to blow “holy smoke” up anyone’s behind

      • pam savage

        Listen Buck…you asked “since when is it acceptable to promote self-destruction”? How about (this is just one example) when the government decided to open Methadone Clinics to get people off of heroin. Methadone is an opiate, as well as heroin, it is just as addictive and twice as hard to kick the habit. I personally have never experienced either one but I have nursed a very close friend off of both. Methadone is legal, heroin is not. I guess the point I am trying to make is that our Government passes laws that “pay-off” in the long run. Is it right??? Morally, no. Is it accepted, publicly yes. The point that I am trying to make here is that as long as “society” agrees…it is accepted as the “norm”. As far as spiritual and personal choices, it is just that personal and private. Where do any of us find the audacity to judge someone elses life choices, especially being as opinionated as you have expressed?

    • CoBrit

      DJ. Sounds like you have studied “Male Queers” in great detail. Sounds to me that there is some attraction there. You obviously have feelings for a male figure in your life. Your best friend perhaps? Go on, ask him already!

  • Chris

    What both should be doing is getting this twisted confused kid help..Also let the boy know that he was NOT born this way and he should fight those gross thoughts out of his head..Remember God did NOT make Adam and Steve or Annie and Eve..BUT,Adam and Eve anything else is unnatural and WRONG…

    • Mark

      Hey Chris guess what GOD didn’t make Adam and Eve either, Genesis is a moral story not fact. Its purpose is to teach a lesson one you clearly do not understand. Have fun in hell.

    • brian

      Did you speak to God about this?

    • CuriousThrillz

      That’s an interesting response for someone that doesn’t care.

    • Kerrie

      Shut up please! God loves everyone, remember that. ignorant idiot.

      • pam savage

        Noone is better than the next. In Gods eyes all sins are equal…a sin is a sin. I cannot understand how anyone feels righteous enough to judge someone else. We ALL have the same thing to bring to the feet of our Lord and Savior…sin

    • pam savage

      Along with you apparent understanding of the bible, explain this to me… while the bible says that homosexuality is a sin, it also says that incest is a sin. So how did our world begin with Adam and Eve. They had 3 sons, 1 of which was murdered by his brother. Where did our world begin??? Eve was the only female and yet her husband (Adam) and her two remaining sons created human-kind??? That question has messed with me for years…

      • pam savage

        This is just a question, a serious one. I am getting dislikes for this but what needs to be understood is that I am a Christian woman and this question has plagued me. I am not being sacrilegious by asking. It is a sincere question, so quit disliking it…do you know the answer??

  • Chris

    Who cares..

  • Chris

    Who cares..

  • Chris

    Who cares..

  • ? DJ

    SO, WHERE IS MY RESPONSE?

  • Blahblah

    It is so interesting that such a terrible situation in general can be perceived as good, because there is a perceived righteousness behind it.
    The father contradicts his own message by disowning his daughter, that is a fact. There were many other ways to handle it.
    It’s fascinating that we as a people can see one thing as terrible, and yet see the exact same situation in another light, and laud it as good parenting. I’m not saying it’s good or bad, it’s just interesting.

    • Kerrie

      Nobody should ever disown their own children FOR ANY REASON. You don’t kick your child out because they have the courage to tell you that they are gay. It is the same as racism to me and hate. RIDICULOUS!! There are children that have killed themselves for being gay and unaccepted. Your child is your child no matter what. When she gets her shit together, I’m sure her father will forgive her.

  • Buck Finster

    This is a pro-gay, lesbian and tranny troll.

    • joe

      Insightful, Buck.

  • jake

    I am a Christian,I have no hate towards gay people.I really do dislike how most Christians pick the parts out of the Bible they want to use to condemn and they forget the other parts.What ever happened to love your neighbor?I do not agree with gays.But if they know the message and know the consequences let them deal with it.It is not your job to beat them in the head with a Bible.You send them the message if they don’t want it find someone who does.In the end they are the ones who have to deal with it.

    Good Day

  • Buck Finster

    You people who promote homosexuality….You’re absolutely morally corrupt and spiritually insane. The people who have been given the power to become the Sons of God (true Christians) are not filled with hate. We love life while you embrace and promote behavior that leads people to death. We are disgusted with people who are trying to teach our children that it is okay to embrace behavior which is spiritually fatal to them. Damn rights we want to protect our children from spiritual destruction and the surest way to do that is to physically eliminate homosexuals from our society. God ordained in his Law that homosexuals should be taken outside of the city and stoned to death. Because we, as a society, have failed to do this, homosexuality is growing more and more rampant. We hate the fact that you’re a pusher of ‘death’ and it is an abomination that you have the unmitigated gall to bring us to task for that. God has unequivocally said that those people who defile and continue to defile their temple (their body) by homosexuality will be destroyed. We are fighting a spiritually fatal moral disease while you are advocating the acceptance of this spiritually fatal moral disease. We hate death and all those who promote things which lead to the spiritual death of millions of people. You live in darkness. The light is shining in the darkness but the darkness does not comprehend or understand the light. You are lost to the coming destruction and we take offense that you would forcefully educate our children to believe that your moral disease is not a moral disease and that it is not spiritually fatal for all who embrace it. We hate you no more than any normal person would hate to have a black mamba having the free reign to go about uncontested within our children’s schools or upon our city streets. Right headed people would quickly kill creatures of death just as they would quickly kill a lion in the streets of Los Angeles or New York or Philadelphia or Dallas, Texas or Dallas, Oregon. They would do it to protect the population from being killed or destroyed. You are blind and cannot see the destruction that you advocate but that doesn’t mean that true Christians must be as blind as you are. I don’t ask you to believe in God because it is already evident that you have no respect or belief in God at all. God wants for you to have life. Messiah came to the world to give people life and so that they might have life more abundantly. You come bearing death and you think we should not do all that we can to destroy you? You and what you purvey is a spiritually fatal disease that not only brings death to the body but also to the spirit. It is right and just and correct that we hate the demons under whose control you have allowed yourself to be. Their fate was sealed before the world was because they were incorrect abominations and assaults on the principles of existence and of life. In due time they shall all be cast into a burning lake of fire and we only seek to not see any human persons taken along with them. I pray that you will become enlightened and see the demons that control you for what they are and for what they desire to happen to you (your utter destruction) so that you will be able to repent and become an advocate and messenger of light and life instead of a promoter of the deaths of men, women and children who are the targets of the demons who you unwittingly allow to dwell in peace in your temple.

    • she knows

      Get off your high horse. You are nobody to call anybody morally corrupt. People like you that spew ignorance and hate are the people that we should all worry about, not homosexuals.

      • Safa

        Homosexuals are pretty hateful. More than once, I’ve been intimidated and threatened by them when they found out I was a Christian. Chilling. Better watch your hypocrisy, ‘she’ and see things how they really are.

    • pam savage

      OM GOD…are you serious???? You , by your words, are not promoting “love”, which is the first (and the most important) principle according to the bible. You are sitting on, what you apparently believe, is some type of righteous knowledge. If you are as aware of scripture, and what being a Christian truly is, then you also should be grievously aware of how you will be served in the afterlife for being such a judgmental sinner. According to the bible, every sin is equal…a sin is a sin in God’s eyes. So while you are being filled with rage (which is very apparent through your words) and extremely opinionated. Remember the words, from the bible…Judge lest ye be judged. Also remember that God is love. The anger and self-righteousness that you spewed, is a judgement my friend. I would really hate to be judged by God, the way that you judge others. You spoke of old testament scripture. Do you not realize that through the justification of Jesus Christ we now have a whole new book of laws??? We also use to have to sacrifice animals, have burnt offering, etc…That goes right along with your statements of abomination. We, as children of God, have the responsibility to share His word and His love. Not judgement, who do you honestly think that you are?? That is God’s job and His alone. You need to get off of you self-righteous high-horse and worry about your own sinful soul. Passing judgement is also a sin, and remember…they are all created equal. Do not post your “opinions” off as scripture. Quit feeling superior and start reading the scripture that you claim to understand so well

      • Sherri

        @Pam Savage…You have wrongly quoted scripture in both of your above posts. I do believe it is…………………. Matthew 7:1 Judge NOT lest thee be judged.

      • Safa

        Pammy, stop constructing strawman arguments, and stop vilifying the victims (those of us who are being made out to be ‘hateful’ and ‘rageful’ by the homosexual agenda).
        One point:
        1. ‘Those who love Me obey my commandments’, says Jesus.
        2. Homosexuality and fornication outside of marriage are a sin (here’s where you may call ‘hate’, but it’s in the bible and is the best for a society. Look it up).
        3. Someone who loves God at least tries to live a life pleasing to Him, even though he may make mistakes. In no way should any of us be living a lifestyle of sin (whatever that is…drunkenness, sex outside of marriage, thievery, etc.)
        4. Those who have given their hearts to Jesus and live to please him will enter heaven because they have made Him their sacrifice.
        5. Those who do not love Him and who live for themselves will not.
        All of this is in scripture. If you’re calling it hate, you’re calling God hateful, and He is not. You need to deal with God and stop making up your own ‘truth’.

    • http://webpronws/technology patty

      Hi Buck,
      I have to let you know that what you write is incorrect, I am a true Christian and I often meet many people who have found the Son of God as being the most hypocritical. Such as yourself! You can promote what you read in the bible, as you have, but you are leaving OUT a lot of scripture that states otherwise. When reading scripture, you will also find that many of the people in the Bible have taken many wives and in today’s world that is against the law, but yet it was okay back then. When you read the Bible, it is all about YOUR interpretation, just like going to a Saturday service and listening to one Pastor and then going to a Sunday service and hearing another Pastor…the message is to be the same, but you hear two different points of views or interpretations. I know many gay/lesbian people that are Christians and behave and act more like Jesus, than people like you who want to be Christians but DO NOT act or behave like one. I will begin to pray for you and I will have my other Christian friends from the real Body of Christ pray for you as well. I would like to tell you what I can gather from your writing, BUT it is not my place to Judge you or anyone else…as it says in the Bible. You are to Love your neighbor, as you would Love yourself and above all..the way you Love Jesus. I EXALT Him and GLORIFY Him, he is the King of Kings and the Lord of all Lords. Amen and God Bless. May You Rest in Peace

      • pam savage

        Your response is AWESOME. Unfortunately I have not commented as calmly as you. If you read my comments, you will understand that my meaning is what you are saying, just not as eloquent or calm. Oh boy, did he get my dander up!! I would like for you to friend request me on FB. I also would like to be part of your prayer circle. You sound, and carry yourself like a Christian, I LOVE IT :). I dont know how this page works, I have never commented before but this situation warranted it. I hope that you get my name on here, if not , resppond back

      • Safa

        Actually, ‘patty’, you’re wrong. God warned people against taking many wives, yet they did anyway (remind you of today? yes).
        And, in speaking of ‘interpretation’, by example, you shoot your own argument in the foot. For truth to be truth, it must be truth across each written example. For instance, the bible has ONE interpretation for any given scripture (i.e., it means what it says), and many life applications (such as God’s love for Israel being applicable to His Gentile children too).
        If you’re going to pull the ‘interpretation’ card, be ready to pull it for all your textbooks, for your court documents (well, ‘I interpreted it this way’ may get you landed in jail!), your newspapers, and, of course your own words. You need to learn how to study the bible precept upon precept. It wasn’t written on rubber, and Jesus Christ is NOT a hypocrite. Ugh.

    • TDB

      I have no idea how to respond to such bigotry. I’m no Christian. Far from it,but I do know enough about to say what you said is absolutely INSANE. You’d want to kill all homosexuals? The problem is not with them it’s you and all judgmentalists. Why do you only pick the parts of Bible that support your bigotry? Why not choose to love all people? That’s what we need. We need to start respecting each other. That’s why society is the way it is. Violence only begets violence. You start hurting them,they start hurting you. The cycle would never end. I’ve known many gays and lesbians in my life and you know what, I’d take the company of them over the company of people like you. Preaching and also hating everyone who doesn’t believe as you. Am I wrong in saying that your god promotes and not hate? So why hate them? If they’re happy let them be happy. Did Jesus teach love or hate? Am I also wrong in saying that your god is the only one who’s truly allowed to judge people? So why are trying to take his place? As a Christian that would be considered blasphemy if I’m not mistaken. Anyway I hope you find it in your heart one day to love and not spew hate.

    • YouKnowImRightYesYouDo

      I had no idea that Westboro Babtist Church monitored this thread. C’mon Buck. If you’re not a member of Phelps’ flock, move to Wichita – RIGHT AWAY!

    • LKG

      Its not about promoting homosexuality. Its not like a Nordstrom sale. It is more about accepting it for what it is. Accepting people for who they are. I cannot believe it is a chosen life. Why would anyone chose that?!! I just think you have to learn to live with the fact that people come in all shapes and sizes and sexualities. This world is not so black and white and a truly spiritual person would know better that GOD is full of endless possibilities and lessons and maybe this is a part of your journey here on earth seeing that it has gotten you all puffy and blue faced and highly emotional…Seems like a lot for you to wrap your mind around. Keep praying and God will deliver you from your hatred.

    • Latni LaCroix

      What the hell is wrong with my sexuality? I like girls, I like guys, so what?
      I have a few questions, and I’d hope that they could be answered.
      One, if God is our father and loves us all, then why would he hate us for our sexual orientation? Didn’t he make us this way? And doesn’t he love all of his children? And if loving the same gender is a sin, didn’t Jesus die on the cross to repent for our sins? So wouldn’t that mean that none of us are going to hell?
      And you want to kill me? How about “thou shall not kill?” Stupid bitch. I CAN LOVE WHOEVER THE HELL I WANT TO, JUST THE SAME AS YOU!!!
      And guess what, damn right I don’t respect or believe in God, because people like YOU come around, preaching your bible and telling me I’m a disease. You, good sir, are a DICK. If I’m a disease, so are you, spreading lies and hate amongst the world. Making children, teens, everyone everywhere feel the want to off themselves. Do you really want to be the cause of so many deaths because YOU and being IGNORANT as HELL? I hop you’re cast into a burning lake of fire, because if hell and God exist, you’re surely going there for killing people with your hurtful comments.
      Goodbye,and I hope to never see you in real life, because shit would go down.

    • Brian

      Your Insane! You might want to knock your self a few steps back!

    • Brian

      BUCK,

      DO ME A FAVOR, GO TO THE STORE GET A “CLUE” THEN COME BACK!

      Thanks

  • James Fredericks

    All the people who are idolizing this guy are complete hypocrites. It’s ok and great for him to disown his offspring due to a difference in beliefs but she is condemned for it. Obviously, if you agree with the gay way of life, you agree with him and he’s great. Funny, he raised her and she did the same thing he did so I don’t see how anyone can revere him and reject her. It just has to do with your politics and ideology. Such ridiculous double standards by liberal gays.

  • http://yahoo Luv

    Luv you “Grampa”!!!!!!

  • pam savage

    I am completely blown away at how anyone could disown their child over sexual preference. First of all, I am a white female with 6 white children. I have been married and divorced to 4 different white men. My step-father was a bigot and he said that “if any of you bring a N-word home, you will be disowned”. I am 1 out of 7 children. He thought that situation was the ultimate sin…(ha ha ha) until the eldest sister brought home a “white” woman. They did not speak for 3 years. My point is that ALL of my “relationships” were abusive, in every angle you can imagine. I have 6 children….what I wish for them is happiness, plain and simple. I dont honestly care if the person is black white, green, male or female if they put my child on a pedestal and give them the respect that they are due… I am ONE HAPPY MAMA. Being a parent means unconditional love. I look at my everyday life when I reflect upon my children. My sexual preferences are mine, just as my friends, family and children have their preferences. They alone “own” those. What you choose to do behind closed doors is private. Why does society want to push their way into personal issues?? I am a christian and I (all by myself) have to face my sins someday. It does not matter what others think (they also have to face their maker). Why does society feel that they hold the right to judge what is right for someone else?? That brings us back to a parent. You raise your children and teach them, your definition, of right and wrong. As they grow they formulate their own views and opinions. Who do we think that we are to be so high and mighty?? If you want to get biblical, then just remember this: “Judge lest ye be judged”.

    • Brian

      Pam

      I can tell you are a good person. I am so happy there are mothers out there like you! You made my day!

      God Bless!

  • Meredith

    The mother needs to deal with whether she loves her child. I was in high school in the 60′s and we had an openly gay male who was well liked by most of our classmates. He was invited to room with 3 other class males at the UofI, with the stipulations: “We won’t bring girls home and you don’t bring guys home”. I as told later, the 4 roommates got along well. Several years later, I learned Roger had committed suicide and I grieved, wondering what I could have done to let Roger know how valuable he was to all of us and how loved and accepted he was from the class of 1961! Oh. yes. We were raised in a red-neck racially prejudiced area! Thank God we learned “way back when” to accept each other as alive human beings with VALUE and deserving love!

  • mike

    I do not agree with the homosexual lifestyle whatsoever, but ANYONE who disowns their child is pathetic. Even that so called dad who wrote the letter..

  • elizabeth

    Grandparents are notorious for loving their grandchildren more than their own children.

    • brian

      How are they notorious for this? Do you factual proof proving so?

      • Temat

        I tae it you have a hard time with understanding the definition of the word “notorious”…. Get a dictionary.

      • Temat

        no·to·ri·ous
        [noh-tawr-ee-uhs, -tohr-, nuh-] Show IPA

        adjective
        1.
        widely and unfavorably known: a notorious gambler. Synonyms: infamous, egregious, outrageous, arrant, flagrant, disreputable.

        2.
        publicly or generally known, as for a particular trait: a newspaper that is notorious for its sensationalism. Synonyms: notable, renowned, celebrated, prominent, conspicuous, famous, widely known.

        ——————————————————————————–

        Origin:
        1540–50; < Medieval Latin nōtōrius evident, equivalent to nō ( scere ) to get to know (see notify) + -tōrius -tory1

        There, did your own schooling for you…. Now all you have to do is read it and consume.

      • YouKnowImRightYesYouDo

        Uh YES. My own father wouldn’t even speak to me, yet I lived with my grandparents while still a teenager. This in no way reflects on my mother, one of my biggest advocates even today!

  • Temat

    First off, I love how the commenters in here have to justify themselves by first claiming “they are Christians” as if that somehow makes them more legitimate in their stance.

    2ndly, apparently the “child” is old enough to be out on his own. Gay or not, why was he continuing to live at home to begin with?

    Gay or not, the mother did the right thing, she is forcing the “child” who is old enough to live on their own to take responsibility or their own actions and decisions.

    The mother should be commended for not taking this “childs” bullcrap any longer.

    • Derek

      Context, context, context. If this was a “child,” who was old enough to be out on their own and just happened to be gay and was being put out because they needed to grow up, that’s one thing. As this letter specifically describes, this mother put out her son BECAUSE he was gay, going so far as to say she “didn’t raise him” to be gay. That’s an entirely different situation. I assume you’re adult enough to know the difference between tough love and no love.

    • Bobby

      There’s nothing commendable about what she did. You’re an idiot.

    • @Temat

      Are you really that delusional?

    • Brian

      I am so blessed I don’t have you as a parent! If your child told u he is gay you answer is to kick him out of the house so he can face the world alone when he needs your support and acceptance as a parent more then ever? It would only make him reject u as his mother or father, you would only be pushing ur own son away! Way to go!

  • http://yahoo Sad

    Most of the gay guys that I know were molested by a male as a young child. I am thinking it was probably the grandpa…

  • pam savage

    By the way… I have been speaking to Buck in all of these posts. I have never responded to this stuff, but you Buck, have inspired me to talk to you.

  • r

    I can’t believe this. Another “gay” story. Here it is our country is falling apart and this is the news. A daughter rejects kid for being gay and grandparents not happy about it. Boo flippin Hoo. Since when did sexual orientation become national news? This is as stupid as it gets. I’m so tired of the “whole” born this way excuse. That is the most stupid excuse I’ve ever heard! If that were true why are there way, way more gays now than ever before? This is all a personal choice! Just like it was moms personal choice to kick her son out. When my kids were older one refused to quit having sex and doing drugs against my rules of MY house. So..I kicked her out. That is the right of all parents. This whole “boo-hooist me” generation is killing this counry. It’s exhausting and that is an abomination! Oh and all you that believe God is o.k. with this again…The question of whether the homosexual was “born that way” will be answered by the One who created humanity: “known to God from eternity are all His works” (Acts 15:18). The Bible, the inspired word of God, gives us an accurate message of truth (II Timothy 3:16-17). It will guide us in the way we should go. We should orient ourselves to its path of righteousness, not the path of “personal expression” and “sexual orientation” that abandons divine truth for human will and experience (Jeremiah 10:23).
    Divine truth does not change according to the will and whim of people. It is unchangeable by men and therefore reliable. Jesus noted that “heaven and earth will pass away, but My words will by no means pass away” (Matthew 24:35). Isaiah said, “The grass withers, the flower fades, but the word of our God stands forever” (Isaiah 40:8). If you want teaching you can depend on to settle today’s disputes about homosexuality and the church, look no farther than the Bible. It is neither outdated nor irrelevant. (Why have the “word of God” and then charge that it is nothing more than the word of men?)

    • Bobby

      You are a garbage human being. Take your outdated ignorance elsewhere.

      • Marty

        Do you go to a church in Florida??? I think I’ve actually seen you carrying signs at funerals celebrating their deaths. Sad excuse for a human being let alone a christian

    • @r

      All you did was put together random bible quotes that literally have nothing to do with this topic. What you wrote is pointless.

    • Safa

      Very true, r. And in the coming years, people who refuse His truth will see what is coming, though I hope they seek Him out before that. He loves them all, but He is a righteous God. If God’s love is out of date, then I welcome old-fashioned-ness. I can’t stand the hateful, sport-sex and angry world we’re in now. Homosexuals chased and almost beat my friend when she was trying to teach a group about sexual purity.
      Real loving and tolerant. I guess if you disagree, you’re in big trouble.

      • Marty

        lol Oh my God are you for real?

  • what

    In other news, an Aunt somewhere is angry because her nephew burped at the dinner table.

    …but in all seriousness, why the fuck is this news? Why?

  • Bobby

    Wow, sounds like a piece of shit mother. She deserves it.

  • Bob

    The dad is a pathetic example of a father to tell his daughter that her son was BORNE gay…. sorry old man contrary to what you are thinking you are not BORNE gay, its a life style that a person chooses and has never had anything to do with genetics, now go and forgive your daughter for not being abl to deal with the fact that her son wants to be GAY and be a real father.

    • Lada

      For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.

      • Safa

        Yes, Lada, and Bob is telling the truth. And he will be judged with truth. I’d look at those other three fingers pointing at you!

    • http://funkymonkey759@yahoo.com Heidi

      wake up!!

    • anonymous

      You hit the nail right on the head Bob. Honestly I can’t stand it when some people try to force others to believe that the gay/lesbian people are born that way. NO they are NOT! That is just an excuse used in order to continue living in that sinful lifestyle and make those who despise it, feel bad for having a different opinion. Now with that said, I have a gay friend named Jerry who I love as a brother with all my heart but even I told him my views and he was WAY more tolerant than most people and never let my view affect our friendship. I can love the gay person as a friend but still disapprove of their choice.

      • chris

        I love when straight people are an “authority” on gay people…..hilarious! thats like a white person being an authority on black people.

        • http://webpronews/life lola cheeks

          we are not an authority on anyone, but God is, and he condemns gay behavior.

      • Erick

        Why would somebody choose a lifestyle where they’re discriminated against, get less rights, and risk losing they’re friends and family because they aren’t accepting?

      • Marty

        I know why you wish to remain anonymous. If I were as ignorant as you, I would also wish to remain unknown

    • Dan C

      Not true. Gayness exists in nature. All you have to do is read about it. There are dozens of sites that talk about gay creatures. Gay isn’t a choice anymore then choosing our proficient hand or what side of our brain is our dominant side. I am not Gay, but, I have great friends who are.

      Do a little research before you sound foolish and filled with hate, that is if you care about the truth.

    • Brian

      Bob you are clueless, what person choses to b gay to be different in this world and have to live there life with hate that comes along with it. So I just have one honest question for you Bob since u believe its a choice “When do you plan to become gay”?

  • Saya

    Love how people bring Bible into this but really have no clue what they are talking about! Bible doesn’t mention anything about Homosexuality The Jews had no such word! closes word they had was the word eunuch. and even Christ said “Some are Born eunuch (Gay?)from the womb, others were made and some chose to be for the hastening of the Lord.

    Next people want to use the other scripture a man shall not lay with a man as he lays with a woman! fist when have you ever known a gay man to lay with a woman!? what that scripture was talking about was when they Israelite were freed from Egypt they were not to take up the practice of other religions which was a fertility thing! so basically a straight man was not to take another straight man and make him his B@#ch.

    another favorite is the Sodom & Gomorrah story had nothing to do with homosexuality of why they were destroyed! they were destroyed for they did not take care of the poor and needy and were inhospitable to foreigners, their desire to rape the Angels had nothing to do with homosexuality! they just wanted to humiliate them because of the aura they gave of authority and they despised the “men” (Angels) for it!

    People seem to forget the Bible was translated for the Jewish Language many years ago and some words have changed their meaning and some have been lost through time. here is a link if you want to further your knowledge.

    http://home.earthlink.net/~ecorebbe/id18.html

    • Pastor White

      OMG are you confused my child or what Saya who told you that? Sodom and Gomorrah was destroyed because they did not feed the poor and needy. Sodom and Gomorrah was an abomination to all who entered into that city. It was a city of perversion that did every unthinkable sexual act that you can think of today. Make no mistake if they could have had their way with those angels they would have done their worst, but the angels were o mission t remove the nephew Lot and his family from their abominable acts before God was set to destroy them for the very reason this nation allows same sex marriages. Be not confused or dismayed my child. Ask God for understanding.

      • Saya

        Nope not one bit confused! cause i searched and studied the word just like the Lord commanded us to. if i may? i also remember people used the Bible to justify slavery as well…and no where was it written to do any such thing! really lets face it people use the Word to justify their hatred of gay people, but they themselves are divorced or living with someone who they are not married to which is against the Word, all these people who are over eaters is against the Word (gluttony), men and women who dress in revealing clothing is a sin, drinking excessively, smokers (defiling of the body) all these are mentioned multiple times yet no one is saying one word about that…but yet want to be the first to throw that big boulder at a gay person! really it’s nothing but hippocracy! how can you claim to love the Lord but hate your Brother! sorry i’m going to love them because i am commanded to, because really God is in control! not you! & definitely not
        I.

  • http://Yahoo Vincent Ngassa

    Both “Grandpa” and “Mum” are not moving on the right track.Grandpa,I think with his age and experience,was supposed to approach the situation differently,just as Mum was too.Kicking out her son wasn’t right,because she puts him on the brink of frustration,fear,depression and puts him in an insecure state as he has to face the world all alone.Luckily for him however,Grandpa welcomes him.Rather,being the mother,it is her primary responsibility to bring up her son and this involves guidance in all spheres of life,so,she had (and still ought)to guide him and advice him,try to understand the roots of his situation and from there lift him up.Grandpa on his part,just fanned the flames via his act.On his part,he too,seeing his daughter going astray,was supposed to come in as a Father an calm his daughter down and help peace and love to reign within the family.What he did however,just created a gulf out of a fault line.However,I am neither judging nor condemning anyone,just calling out on the seniors,to set the pace for peace and harmony to reign within the family,by not staying at arms length,but reach out and assist each other,so as to set things back in their right places.In doing such,do they think of its impact on the kid?He is the one in the middle of all this,the subject,suffering the action of the doers.How will his psychology be affected growing without a “MUM”?Also what if he is faced with a similar situation later in life,should he “DISOWN” his own flesh and blood?

  • Reality

    I am a Christian and it is apparent that many people are hiding their hate behind the words in the Bible. Christ said to love your neighbor and God and that these were the two most important commandments. Christ’s whole life was an example of how to give love, forgiveness, mercy, and compassion. HIS WHOLE LIFE WAS THE EXAMPLE.

    Yet, so many Christians, today do the exact opposite. We don’t give love – just look at some of the posts here. We don’t give mercy – just go into the courtrooms and prisons of America and you will see this. We don’t forgive completely. We don’t know the meaning of the word compassion. We don’t seek peace — we bomb more countries than any other nation in the world.

    This country is the biggest hypocrisy the world has ever seen and our version of Christianity is the most screwed up version in the world. You have 30,000 different versions of Christians in this nation — all doing what they want to do. We are clueless and people wonder where the second Babylon will come from? Christ spoke extensively about hypocrites — well America look in the mirror and you will see one.

    • http://webpronews/life lola cheeks

      Reality. I agree with you all the way, couldn’t have said it better. people are beginning to get father and father away from the truth. we love our families, and we don’t like their ways sometimes, but we still don’t turn our backs on them. but we also don’t condone what they are doing.
      and as we know we are not born gay, its a choice, like drinking and drugs. God said people would turn to this when the world got more sinful, so why would he make you gay and then punish you for being that way.? people has things so backwards, and will stop at nothing to defend their actions, no matter what the cost.

    • Safa

      Reality, you can’t have your feet in both worlds. ‘Friendship with the world is enmity with God’. Yes, we are to LOVE everyone. And I, as a Christian, take no responsibility for the world’s sins. I do what I can in my life to show God’s love. That does NOT mean throwing away His truth. I am no different from anyone who is living in a lifestyle of rebellion from God (‘sin’) other than that I am forgiven. I still have the same temptations as everyone else. I choose to forsake those temptations.
      A ‘hypocrite’, for your information, is someone who speaks from both sides of his mouth. He says one thing and does another. Be very careful. The world does not live by God’s rules, but you, if you really are a Christian, should be living by God’s word, not what the latest trend is.

      • Marty

        First of all you must KNOW God’s word and it is quite evident you have no idea. Please keep quiet and let God do His own talking. We do not need Pharisees or zealots trying to teach what they “think they know” about the bible or about their God. Mine is a living, loving and caring God

  • Stacy

    Way to Go Dad!!!!

    • http://yahoo keisha

      if a person want to be gay then that is on them we are not to judges someone and make them less love it was bad that they have to come out and people will talk about them about them being gay. so dad was wrong for put his son out he should have talk to him more because what if someone did that to so. GO TEAM GAY

  • Pastor White

    To all concerned parties….it may somewhat of a tragedy to all of you who read about the mother disowning her son who made his sexual preference to love on other men. The operative statement was that she did not raise him to choose to love on men as he would a woman. It is her right to let her son understand her disappointment for him to be gay, rather than ask his mom to help him. Her son chose a life style not a life that she prepared him for. I had daughter that went gay. But with prayer and confronting the enemy and rebuking his attempt to steal my child away from her inheritance into God’s kingdom was not going to happen, and it did not. Today she is happily married with four beautiful children. To al concerned let us not sit in judgment of this Moms decision to help her son understand that is choice is unacceptable. Sure Jesus was a prime example of how we should love one another. But lets not get God twisted h will kill you even as much as he loves us. Our parents Adam & Eve allowed sin to come into this world due to temptation as we have been subjected to (sin)that is so bible say all have sinned and come short of God.

    We all must admit this world is messed up and man can not fix it. This family tragedy is just one thousands of families who are and have been effected by children as well as parents who have come out of the so called closet of homosexuality and lesbianism. This a condition of the mind an epidemic that is sweeping the world. Some would have you think this type of behavior in men, women, and children is acceptable in the sight God and it is not. (see) Romans Chapters 1-3 People need to understand that even when it hurts the reality and the truth of what is moral and what immorality is.

    Look up the the words, moral, immorality, abomination. adultery, fornication. And then ask yourself which one of these categories do I fit in if at all. The supreme court is on board, the pope is on board, the president is on board. If God had intended for sexual immorality to reign in this world from the beginning none us would have been born if he just created Adam & Steve Praise God ad may he bless you all.

    • who cares if youre gay

      lol at pastor white…your daughter is STILL GAY. simply because she has a family and is married means shit nothing. you my friend are absent minded and do not have a clue.

      • Maria

        Umm his daughter was probably never gay and just going through that lesbian stages most girl do. And Actually to be more specific most Lesbians are full of shit and aren’t ” born gay” they turn to women because either 1) they had a bad experience with a man 2.) low self esteem. Butch lesbians are probably more like to be born gay than fem lesbians.

      • Safa

        Funny how if someone chooses homosexuality they ‘are gay’, and can never go back. Another piece of propaganda from the machine. I know several Christians (Sy Rogers, namely, one man who has a web site on sexual brokenness), who forsook this sin in order to accept Jesus. No, it wasn’t so they could switch partners, but so they could have their hearts of stone turned to clay…an malleable substance God can work on. It’s not about your genitals, folks, it’s about your eternal soul…whether you’re homosexual, heterosexual or asexual. Sin is a symptom. Jesus has a plan for EVERYONE.

    • Gia

      Pastor White… You need to do some research. A person who is gay, male or female, does not “go” gay or “choose” to be gay. The are in fact, beyond any question, born gay. There have been gay people living on this planet since the beginning of time. It’s only narrowed-minded people who refuse to acknowledge the truth about ones sexuality. I fully support the actions of the father. As for the mother, we should all hope that one day she realizes what a mistake she has made.

    • Maria

      God Bless you !

  • Shelly

    It so sad for a mother to disown her own child just because he is gay. Props go out to the father to step up to the plate and take care of his grandson. What is this world coming to. Shame on you mom…

  • Brian

    I think its just crazy how people throw the bible on homosexuality! If that child is gay that is his life why do Christians have to keep parading around religion. YES, u are entitled to your own opinion but why is it the only argument when its about anything homosexual? So much about love your neighbor!

    • Safa

      When homosexuals want to stamp out Christianity and put their ‘rights’ over Christians’ freedoms, yes, I think there is something to be said about it. We are to love (“be out for the best interest of”) our neighbors, which includes telling them the truth. I am certainly not going to squash who I am so they can go out and do whatever they want to society. Christians should not be marginalized just because of who others have decided to have sex with.

      • Mart

        wow and you say you are a Christian? sounds like someone who knows very little about Christ and a lot about being a hyprocrite

  • http://Yahoo Kay

    Your child should be your most cherished possession. You should protect your child with your life. After carrying a child inside your body for 9 months and feeling that child grow and move, how could you discard that child for any reason. The love of a Mother should be the fiercest love there is. This is truly not a real Mother. You should love your child no matter what. God Bless Her Heart and heal her thoughts so she can be a loving and kind Mother.

  • Steve

    Why do so many people believe this fraud?

    If the hand-written letter was sent to the daughter, she would have the only copy of it. It does not make sense that she would widely spread a letter that chastises *her*.

    In the phony letter, the phony father states that disowning is childish and then he does it!

    The letter sounds like a fraud written by a sixth grader.

  • Danielle

    It’s funny how people claim gay parents will make unfit and/or bad parents; yet, you’d never see them disown any child of theirs because they turned out straight. Hypocrites.

  • marc

    I appreciated the cogent, intelligent comment from the (straight) veteran who pointed out he fought for everyones rights. I also commend the courage of this great man who disowned his daughter for the strength of his convictions. It must have been heart wrenching to say that to his heartless daughter but it needed saying. Sometimes my faith in fellow man is rewarded when I see people like this standing up to small minded gnomes.

  • Gia

    For anyone in doubt, a person who is gay, male or female, does not “go” gay or “choose” to be gay. They are in fact, beyond any question, born gay. There have been gay people living on this planet since the beginning of time. It’s only narrowed-minded people who refuse to acknowledge the truth about one’s sexuality. I fully support the decision of the father. No doubt it was not an easy one for him to make. Perhaps one day the mother will realize the mistake she has made and try to make amends.

    • tyler pierce

      Gays have not been here since the beginning of time. Adam and Eve have, man and women have. If gays were here at the beginning and not hetrosexuals, life would have ended at that moment.

  • Solari

    Kudos Dad..some people should just not procreate..his daughter is the true shame of the family..when I came out to my mother the first thing she said when I told her about my being in love is..”does she treat you right?? are you happy?” I said yes to both and my 85 year old mother has been super supportive ever since..that is how a mother should be and should act..no mom you did not raise your child to be gay, well duh ignorant a** no one raises their child to be gay or striaght straight they just are and if you have a problem with it..tough s**t live and let live…and to all of you haters out there…I tried seeing things from your point of view, but I can’t seem to get my head that far up my own a**, so I guess I’ll just live by my own life code of MYODB..

  • Solari

    Hey Buck you self righteous holier then thou moron you’re calling for the death of gays and lesbians..ever hear of thou shalt not kill?? duh moron..please God let me meet this piss ant in a dark alley. I swear he will be picking his teeth out of his own a**..and if he tried again he would be telling Satan I said hi…btw I wanna be there when you have to explain to God why you encouraged hatred and violence in his name..WOW, will that be one for the books!!

  • camele

    kick his ass out yes. her dad probably is one of those down low brothers. god and unu backside.

  • Nana

    It saddens me how many Christians out there have literally sold out their beliefs. Yes God preached for us to love one another but he also states that homosexuality is a sin. While the mother is wrong, her father is wrong to. Instead of sending the mother a letter of love, praying for her to be accepting of her child he shuns her to.

    • Katie

      And your proof that God states this? Waiting….

    • Laramie

      Christians like you need to be told over and over – you are not Christian. You pick and choose what you like from the Old Testament and then utterly ignore the character and the message of Jesus. Have you worn mixed fibers? An abomination! Do you believe a virgin who is raped should be forced to marry her rapist? That’s in the Bible in the same book of laws that condemn homosexuality. Jesus meanwhile spent his time with prostitutes, Samaritans and the poor. He had no use for pharisees or anyone else who was judging others rather than loving them.

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