Banderas Griffith Rumors Spread After His Fling, Her Rehab

By Amanda Crum · July 18, 2012 · 187 Comments

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Banderas Griffith Rumors Spread After His Fling, Her Rehab

Antonio Banderas and Melanie Griffith have been together quite a long time in Hollywood years–15, to be exact–and despite their loving facade, some say their marriage is falling apart.

After Banderas was caught on film kissing a woman in a Cancun nightclub–and then leaving with her–and Melanie’s continued struggle with drug use, the family seems divided. Rumors are swirling that Banderas is attempting to squash all the talk about divorce and make things right with his wife. After Melanie was seen out and about and missing her wedding band, speculation was amplified.

“Melanie’s a mess,” a friend told Perez Hilton. “Not only is she in jeopardy of losing the love of her life, but her career is in the toilet while Antonio’s star is continuing to rise. I think Melanie’s self esteem hit an all time low and she believed Antonio was torturing her. For years, it’s as if she’s been consumed with jealousy over his flirting and outspoken love for beautiful women. I don’t think Melanie can live with the constant fear that he might cheat.”

That “constant fear” might have something to do with rumors that he was seen with at least one other woman a few years ago while in Mexico to promote his film “Shrek The Third”, and some are wondering if it’s also the cause of her latest stints in rehab.

Banderas and Griffith put up a unified front when talking to the media about her drug problem, however, saying the struggle had only made them stronger.

“We love each other, and above all we love our family. We’ve figured out how to get past obstacles … and if you get past those, you only get stronger,” Banderas said.

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Reality
July 18, 2012 at 3:23 pm

Banderas cheat please he cheated with her in the first place. Come on
15 years in Hollywood is like a Golden wedding Anniversary. She is old and he is gone. I wouldn’t trust either one as far as i could throw them.

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michelle
July 18, 2012 at 3:20 pm

she’s a mess.

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RE
July 18, 2012 at 3:14 pm

Yes ALL but maybe 1 or 2 Latino men cheat. From my 41 years walking this ground I have witnessed almost all. Maybe now Melanie sees that the grass is not greener on the other side. For Antonio, payback is a b**** and then you marry one. I bet his wife is getting the last laugh now and not to mention child support without the burden of being with him.

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Laura
July 18, 2012 at 3:14 pm

First off, I think he is ugly. Secondly, both should end their charade and move on with their lives. He can screw all the women he wants and she can do all the drugs she wants and everyone will be happy.

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M.B
July 18, 2012 at 3:10 pm

I agree with CL, plus she looks old and tried.

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TC
July 18, 2012 at 3:07 pm

Hope they work things out. Everyone needs happiness even if they have made mistakes in life. Like no one hasn’t!!! You know how the news agency are, if there is a crack, chip it out until it is wider than a valley.

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Gordon Speake
July 18, 2012 at 2:56 pm

I am quite certain that their troubles can be traced to George W. Bush.

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  JanieVee
  July 18, 2012 at 4:00 pm
  
  Correct! Almost all of our current troubles can be traced to him.
  
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Debbie
July 18, 2012 at 2:56 pm

Melanie cheated on Don Johnson with Antonio Banderas and that’s how they hooked up. so Melanie’s the cheater. she even said in previous interviews that she always cheated, she couldn’thelp herself. Latin men are handsome and eye candy and also make great lovers and have good family values. Melanie has none, she only has huge lips that sag because she keeps deflating and inflating them. whos wants to be kissing excess skin. I think Antonio should move on. his wife is a druggie and won’t stop using no matter how many stints she has at a rehab. doesn’t seem to be working for her.

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  whatever
  July 18, 2012 at 3:08 pm
  
  Really Debbie? My latin husband sucked in the sack and was a horrible family man and a cheater to boot. Perhaps you should nix the generalization.
  
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  bini
  July 18, 2012 at 4:33 pm
  
  Great lovers??? do not agree with you.
  
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JIM
July 18, 2012 at 2:49 pm

IT’S OBAMA’S FAULT!

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Felicia Savinon
July 18, 2012 at 2:13 pm

Yes they do, sorry can’t stand spanish men. That is why my husband is German. And I am spanish, don’t get me wrong they are sexy and suave but all they should be is eye candy. You can’t marry latin men they will eventually cheat wirh a friend or even another family member. Well that’s what I have run accross in my time.

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  Adriana Cardenas
  July 18, 2012 at 2:17 pm
  
  Felicia, that is an idiot comment to make. I have been happily married 10 years to a latin man. (I am also latin) but to say that all latin men should be only be eye candy and are not marriage material is an ignorant comment to make. Shame on you.
  
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    Annie
    July 18, 2012 at 2:41 pm
    
    True.
    Latin men are by far the most good-looking.
    Not only that but the diversity of hues among Latin
    men is.
    My girlfriends who travel Europe say that when Spanish
    men are ‘good-looking’ —they are exceptionally good
    looking- more than the Italians!
    
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      healemotions
      July 18, 2012 at 3:13 pm
      
      I am a latin female and tome black men are the sexiest
      UMMM
      
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        FeeJizm
        July 18, 2012 at 3:57 pm
        
        Well, EVERY ETHNICITY has their tall tale about manly men and their “sexyhood” in their culture….So, for the RECORD All black men:
        
        1. DO NOT have a big dick
        
        2. DO NOT have rhythem—on the dance floor or while dancing in the sheets.
        
        3. As for the ability to keep it strong all nite long……..WRONG
        
        4. Refuse to travel South of the Equator…. hahahahahahahahahahaha….ummm bruh’, it’s not working bring on the good-good.
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        VCD
        July 18, 2012 at 4:23 pm
        
        THANK GOD someone has figured out that all black men are not well endowed, can’t dance and listen to just hip hop and can go all night! The ones that can and do are gay. I’m black and let me tell you, it ain’t all that. I’ve had a few Irish boys that would put some black men to shame. Have no desire to be with a latin man. I stay close to home because that’s what I know and like. As for Melanie, stop getting plastic surgery, love and accept who you are and find a man that appreciates that. Drugs will make you look old, busted and disgusted.
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    Elise
    July 18, 2012 at 2:56 pm
    
    I agree in part with Felicia. I was married to two different hispanic men and there was abuse in both marriages. Hispanic men don’t treat women very well on the whole. There are exceptions, of course, but for the most part…. It’s part of their culture.
    
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    bini
    July 18, 2012 at 4:35 pm
    
    Adriana,
    I do know, for a fact, that most of latin man will eventually cheat on their wives. If you can oversee that, then, yes, some might be good “marriying material”
    
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    bini
    July 18, 2012 at 4:36 pm
    
    Adriana,
    if you can overlook their cheating ways, then, some might be good marrying material..
    
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  Annie
  July 18, 2012 at 2:36 pm
  
  You’re white trash–that’s why Spanish men cheat on you.
  Just like Melanie!
  
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hoe
July 18, 2012 at 2:13 pm

Dog will hunt……………….

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Renelda Moorehead
July 18, 2012 at 2:07 pm

Melanie Griffith is one of my fave actresses. She is accomplished.
I am so sorry to learn about her marital problems. She and her husband have had a long run, maybe it is time to close their ‘show.’
I wish her the strength to go on and to continue to command the roles she plays so well. As for Banderas, I believe he rode her coattails to his mediocre stardom. Be strong, Melanie; be blessed.

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  Annie
  July 18, 2012 at 2:38 pm
  
  Accomplished?
  Melanie is total white trash!
  
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michele
July 18, 2012 at 2:06 pm

Why anyone would be surprised by their philandering and drug use is beyond me, the relationship to begin with was on the CHEAT, so why would anyone think that would change? Her lips look like inflated balloons and to me he is a has-been!

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GinaG
July 18, 2012 at 1:52 pm

What goes around, comes around…Didn’t Melanie leave Don Johnson for Antonio Banderas? Now the shoe is on the other foot. Melanie is worried that her marriage is falling apart because Antonio might leave her for some other woman…History repeats itself!

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  banana
  July 18, 2012 at 2:08 pm
  
  Sour-sour You ! Melanie left Don because he abused her physically.
  
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  Liberals Are Evil
  July 18, 2012 at 2:12 pm
  
  Yes she did…but that lowlife Banderas left his wife of 7 years for this junkie too. They are both cheating scum and they deserve each other.
  
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    Annie
    July 18, 2012 at 2:43 pm
    
    REPUBLICANS are NAZI’S
    
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  marko
  July 18, 2012 at 2:15 pm
  
  Remember, according to most women, when men cheat it’s because they are dogs. When women cheat, it’s because men are dogs. It’s never their fault.
  
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virginia rice
July 18, 2012 at 1:26 pm

If you are going to cheat, why get married. Marriage is all about love, and commitment, and being faithful to that one person.If you can’t, then why get tied down to one person in the first place?

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  HI
  July 18, 2012 at 1:43 pm
  
  Exactly,i knew a guy few years ago who told me he was a newly wed and he was already cheating on his wife i was like ‘what? You must be kidding me’.I don’t know why he got married to be honest.
  
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  anita
  July 18, 2012 at 1:56 pm
  
  Virginia, I agree with u completely, but after awhile his wife’s substance abuse can be a hard thing to handle and after 15 yrs, of the problem maybe her husband is tired of that scene. He is Latino and believe me many latino men cheat.
  How would u like to be married to a self indulgent addict for 15 yrs.
  
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    Turtle
    July 18, 2012 at 2:07 pm
    
    Don’t cheat, man up and leave.
    
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  Turtle
  July 18, 2012 at 2:09 pm
  
  I don’t believe most people go into marriage thinking they are going to cheat.
  
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  Julie Stanfield
  July 18, 2012 at 2:42 pm
  
  I agree. But sorry Melanie, you deserve no sympathy. Her relationship with Banderas began as an extramarital affair. He was still married to his first wife, and left her for Melanie. What goes around comes around.
  
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Malinda
July 18, 2012 at 1:22 pm

So this marriage has stayed till now?We can only imagine what’s been going on behind close doors. I’m not surprised though. This was only waiting to happen.

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  Flamethrower
  July 18, 2012 at 3:14 pm
  
  Living and working in the L.A. you hear and see things in the entertainment industry. I personally have heard for years that Melanie and Antonio live a swinger lifestyle. If that is the case, swapping partners has been a constant in their marriage. I used to work with a woman that was a swinger and she and her husband had specific “rules” no seeing anyone away from their spouse. From what I’ve seen, when one of the spouses starts doing that, that is when the marriage begins to fall apart. Antonio is most likely tired of Melanie’s insecurities and drug abuse (didn’t he know about that when he married her?)And she is worried because he is seeing women without her. As for Latin men cheating, they do have that reputation. My boyfriend is Latin and luckily isn’ the muy macho,ladies man people expect. I got lucky!
  
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peejay
July 18, 2012 at 1:02 pm

It takes very strong individuals to survive the temptations of a Hollywood marriage. What did she expect? He’s got it all. Since Antonio appears to be the stronger/more mature of these two, I hope he takes the steps to break the vicious cycle of reacting to each other’s weaknesses. I pray Melanie adopts some of the resilience of the character she played in “Shining Through,” and that’s how I’ll remember her.

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Eric
July 18, 2012 at 12:59 pm

My friend used to work @ Radio City Music Hall backstage and one year when it was hosting the Tony’s he had to work and they were both in play’s that year – she was in Chicago, he was in Nine – and he told me the whole time backstage they did nothing but fight and she was the nastier of the two, and he just stood there with a scowl being “whipped”. Of course, the second they had to go out, they were all smiles and hugs. I believe the rumor then was that she asked to do Chicago just so she could keep an eye on him. Not surprised by story. Sounds accurate.

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CL
July 18, 2012 at 12:57 pm

Didn’t their whole relationship start with CHEATING ? He was married and his wife was pregnant when Melanie caught his eye and he and she started an affair….and he left his pregnant wife. You reap what you sow …if he will cheat for you he will cheat ON you as the old saying goes.

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  denise
  July 18, 2012 at 1:55 pm
  
  melanie was also married to don johnson when she started her affair with antonio..they were working things out.. he’d helped her through rehab and she repaid him by cheating
  
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Sirena-bella
July 18, 2012 at 12:51 pm

Latino men are always looking for their next conquest!!

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Sirena-bella
July 18, 2012 at 12:51 pm

Latino men are “Horn Dogs”.

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Missy
July 18, 2012 at 12:46 pm

In my experience men love the chase and what they can’t have. Melanie cares too much it would seem. The best thing she can do is get a life and don’t care one way or the other if Antonio stays or goes. If he’s already cheating then she is showing him he’s gum on the bottom of her shoe, if not he’ll have to win her back. After 15 years of marriage things are probably pretty dull and tense around their home and someone has to make a move.

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Janice Evans
July 18, 2012 at 12:32 pm

I’m reading everyone’s opinion, look at the real picture, it’s not a race thing, it’s a I’m tired of your s*** thing” Antonio has been picking Melanie up off the floor for years, she’s been on drugs most of their marriage, even the children sat her down and told her about her drug use, families get tired when they are being held hostage to someone else’s addictive ways, If I was Antonio I’d walk away too! Addiction not only hurt that person but tares family apart, she paranoid because she’s using and she know that boy is getting tired of her s***.

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leele
July 18, 2012 at 12:31 pm

wait…latino men have a rep….they always have a mistress…my mom worked w/a latino guy & he told her MOST latin men have a mistress…its the culture….

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  Darlene
  July 18, 2012 at 12:48 pm
  
  There are millions of Latino men and we’re to believe that 1 person can speak for half of that population. Where are you people from on this blog? I’ve read some of the most racist, intolerant and most ignorant comments which you have to take that these people are walking around thinking these thoughts and if it walks, talks and looks I’m sure is what is dividing our country. Get a life! One person can’t speak for an entire race of people!
  
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margaret
July 18, 2012 at 12:26 pm

She was also married to Bruce Willis at the time wasn’t she? Never the less, it is always sad when a marriage breaks up. I hope they can both make it right.

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  don johnson
  July 18, 2012 at 12:35 pm
  
  f*** that ragged out b****.
  
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  davina
  July 18, 2012 at 12:35 pm
  
  Don’t you mean that she had just broken up with Don Johnson, Miami Vice. I don’t think she has ever dated Bruce Willis
  
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  Sue
  July 18, 2012 at 12:36 pm
  
  Never married to Bruce Willis. Left her actor husband Don Johnson for Banderas.
  
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    margaret
    July 18, 2012 at 12:39 pm
    
    Thank you Sue. I discovered that after I posted it. Sad situation is’nt it?
    
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  don johnson
  July 18, 2012 at 12:36 pm
  
  she was married to me
  
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  margaret
  July 18, 2012 at 12:37 pm
  
  No, I have her confused with Demi Moore. My apologies to Griffith. My condolances to her. Divorce is very devastating for the one left behind. And the ones who suffers most are the children. They are scared forever.
  
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  Sweets
  July 18, 2012 at 12:39 pm
  
  She was never married to Bruce Willis…
  
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Susan
July 18, 2012 at 12:25 pm

I thought the rumor might be more crazy than the usual ones I’ve read, but it’s the usual fodder. I doubt it entirely. Melanie Griffiths’ drug problem and stints in rehab are very tragic. She’s a drug addict. Plain and simple. I think we look at celebrities and think they have it all. She sadly made foolish choices with her life, who she chose to socialize with, who she decided to believe in. I pray that she will some day see that Jesus is the only way and the one person who will never leave her nor forsake her. People may leave your life, but He never will.

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Janice Evans
July 18, 2012 at 12:23 pm

I tink Antonio has done a wonderful job putting up with her years of substance abuse, if he cheated she needs to look to herself, if her career is over she also needs to look to herself. Everyone makes excuses for their behaviors and hold there family hostage to their bulls*** for years, Melanie needs to get a face life and stay off drugs, I love Antonio, what did she expect, be a wife!

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  DNA
  July 18, 2012 at 12:32 pm
  
  You said it plain and simple right to the point!
  
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  margaret
  July 18, 2012 at 12:44 pm
  
  Janice, there is never an excuse for cheating. First try to mend the break up, if it cannot be done, then walk away, get your divorce but never cheat. If the excuse is to spare the child, lame excuse’ children always know what’s happening. Too many broken homes today. The family unit is at the bottom of the pile. Just look around at what we have done to our children, to the family unit?
  
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Mar
July 18, 2012 at 12:18 pm

Wasn’t she the lady Banderas cheated with when Banderas was married to another? What does she expect? She flirted and had an affair with a married man that lead to him divorcing his wife. Karma!!

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gerri
July 18, 2012 at 11:43 am

If I were in a marriage that drove me to a constant fear of my husband cheating I would more than likely have the same problem Melanie does. However, I choose NOT to ever give anyone the power to put me in a constant state of fear irregardless of how much I may love them. My motto…”Love Yourself First and Foremost”

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  yahoo user
  July 18, 2012 at 12:03 pm
  
  irregardless isn’t a real word. Regardless is. fyi
  
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    Trishy
    July 18, 2012 at 12:23 pm
    
    Angeline Jolie would never ever act that way….Brad Pitt knows if he cheated Jolie would kick him out!!!
    
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    jerseydevil
    July 18, 2012 at 12:25 pm
    
    My mom used to say “irreguardless” when she was angry.I called it “rez-speak”,as she was Hunkpapa Sioux.Today is her birthday in heaven.I miss her.
    
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    vicki
    July 18, 2012 at 12:30 pm
    
    There is no such word as irregardless!
    
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  Trishy
  July 18, 2012 at 12:21 pm
  
  Melanie lived in constant fear of him cheating/leaving, etc. He did anyway!! You cannot play detective in a relationship/marriage, Who wants to anyway??…Her insecurites/fears are the reason she takes drugs in the first place. She should concentrate on her own life, children, work, etc. Let him worry about her, i.e. if she is going to leave him or divorce him? (for a change).Self Confidence is the key…
  
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Aolmsn
July 18, 2012 at 11:42 am

Didn’t he leave his wife in spain with children for Melanie? Of course he will leave her.

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Ann
July 18, 2012 at 11:34 am

I am with a man who is Latino and I know what she is going through. It’s almost like a no-win situation. You love that person but their flirting/cheating is sheer torture. I can understand why she became a drug addict.

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  ProudLatina
  July 18, 2012 at 11:49 am
  
  Excuse me but this has nothing to do with the fact that he is Latino. We Latinos are very loyal people. There are exceptions, of course, like there are in every culture and race. You can’t excuse bad behavior on race.
  
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    DNA
    July 18, 2012 at 12:35 pm
    
    well said! It is not the race but the person without values who cheat!
    
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  Rose
  July 18, 2012 at 11:49 am
  
  @ Ann.. i dont think being latino is what is making him cheat or flirt… her addiction has been an issue way before she married antonio.. i think they have both lost interest in their marriage but refuse to divorce because its become such a cliche in the hollywood industry.. as to ur issue, no disrespect, but he may be trying to get attention that he doesnt receive from you, or he may be trying to get that “spark” feeling that he is still attractive… men tend to do that sort of thing.
  
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  emm
  July 18, 2012 at 11:50 am
  
  you are only speaking for yourself, obviously.
  
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  jerseydevil
  July 18, 2012 at 12:21 pm
  
  Banderas is from Spain (Barcelona,I believe);which makes him Castilian,not Latino.
  
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    brenda
    July 18, 2012 at 12:59 pm
    
    Cheating is not about culture, it is about morals. Her addiction is drugs, his addiction is beautiful women.
    
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  davina
  July 18, 2012 at 12:44 pm
  
  There is a way to win. Be happy yourself and have some respect for you. I am happier than I have ever been. You have to ask yourself what is healthy for you and will make you happy.
  
  Life is too short to stay with someone who cares so little for you that he would rather have sex with someone else. That is a dealbreaker.
  
  Ann life would be happier single and looking foward to what could be than to wake up knowing that you are getting less than you deserve. He will continue to cheat until you teach him that you won’t put up with it.
  
  If finance is keeping you put then look at your options. Talk to family or people in the community. If you are married w/ kids then there could be some support. If you are single walk away and enjoy what little you have of your life before it is gone. No one is promised even today, so why waste yours on a low life???
  
  Do it for yourself; you deserve it.
  
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Pam van Dijk
July 18, 2012 at 11:33 am

I feel bad for Melanie Griffith but I’m not surprised. This guy has a big ego and will probably leave her for a younger, prettier woman. That’s the sad truth for a lot of Hollywood people. Everything is great for awhile but look at these couples. How many actually are still around for the duration? I hope he ends up a lonely old man…

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Lynn Linderman
July 18, 2012 at 11:26 am

I have followed the Griffith-Banderas marriage for a decade and a half..
I know that Melanie is besotted in love with Antonio, even having his name emblazoned on her arm..

I think both of them have tried to solidify and keep this marriage intact…..also because of Dakota, their Daughter…and their love for each other.

Melanie, like many others..has had problems with prescription and controlled substance and has gone into rehab…

It is a difficult road for her…and her children are urging her to rehabilitate, and get healthy and strong…

I hope that they can work out the conflicts that can come with relationships…and especially when one of the partners becomes more successful, and the other “Person’s Star Falls”….

But I wish them both well…and that it may be resolved…For the Partnership…and for their Family…

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  me
  July 18, 2012 at 11:34 am
  
  Dakota is not their daughter, it her daughter with Don Johnson. I think their daughter’s name is Stella.
  
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  Johnnie
  July 18, 2012 at 11:37 am
  
  Hey Lynn:
  Having someone’s name tatooed on younis not an expression of love.It’s as dumb as it sounds.
  
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Amused
July 18, 2012 at 11:18 am

I am a huge fan of both on the screen. It ends there as far as my perception of them as two people that I will never personally ‘know’ in terms of opinionated appraisal. Celebs are always under such scrutiny because as a society, we set them up on these unattainable unrealistic pedestals. These people are ‘entertainers’…I am entertained; thereby they are successful in their professional pursuits. As for the individuals they have come to be, it sounds as though they BOTH need help. Their marriage was not founded on a healthy foundation to start with. “As it begins, so it will end.”

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  arlene
  July 18, 2012 at 11:34 am
  
  it is just a matter of time, you look for the indicators and then the pattern, sorry, that’s how it goes in the world of glamour, power and hollywood.
  
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  me
  July 18, 2012 at 11:34 am
  
  Dakota is not their daughter, it her daughter with Don Johnson. I think their daughter’s name is Stella.
  
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    me
    July 18, 2012 at 11:35 am
    
    oops, replied to wrong post, sorry.
    
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RAC
July 18, 2012 at 11:13 am

One more thing….for example….she would have been great as the mother in Killer Joe.

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RAC
July 18, 2012 at 11:11 am

What a shame….marraige AND career. I have always enjoyed her performances. If she would let herself age naturally she could be a great character actress. Still could be if she found the right agent and embraced her age.

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Carol
July 18, 2012 at 11:11 am

I learned the hard way that “once a cheater, always a cheater”. If he left one wife for you, you can usually expect that he will do the same to you.

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  Cathy
  July 18, 2012 at 11:28 am
  
  You are so right, once a cheater, always a cheater. If he cheats with you, he will cheat on you.
  
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    John Nicoletti
    July 18, 2012 at 11:45 am
    
    Excellent comment, and ohhhh, so accurate. Beaver rules.
    
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tnguyinsc1@yahoo.com
July 18, 2012 at 11:10 am

I thought Banderas was a closeted gay man actually — no joke! She was just his beard.

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Jo Jo
July 18, 2012 at 11:07 am

Might want to step back and wait to see what is really true about any of the junk in this article. I am skeptical about most of what they are even saying here.

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  davina
  July 18, 2012 at 12:32 pm
  
  They have actual film of him kissing and leaving with a woman. You don’t leave unless you have sex. That is cold, hard facts = proof. What they plan to do about it could be speculation. What would you do if you caught your husband/boyfriend/wife/girlfriend ? on film with another kissing and leaving a bar? Life is too short to settle for a cheater.
  
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Michael A. Caprioni
July 18, 2012 at 11:07 am

They can win this thing, problems can be solved and divorce is never final. They should stay together.

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sherry
July 18, 2012 at 10:58 am

What goes around comes around? I’m just surprised it hasn’t happened before now!

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Williams
July 18, 2012 at 10:57 am

This would happen whether Melanie had messed up her face and lips or not. No matter how beautiful a woman can be, most men want a change and they act on it. The kicker is so do women but they have a nasty name for us when we do. For men, it’s called “They’re men and they have testosterone”. The trick for women is keep yourself together so when and if this happens, you won’t have the added downer of your physical and mental self NOT being together.

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Victor
July 18, 2012 at 10:47 am

This is simply biology taking its course. She is getting old
and drying up. Plastic surgery is awful. She looks like a clown. He is good looking. Men get older but women rot. I am dating a girl exactly half my age. I never even thought I could date her. I visit her workplace a few times a week for business and she’s the one that pursued me.I couldn’t believe it. I asked her if she realized I am twice her age she just smiled at me and said it didn’t matter. I feel so lucky and my married friends now hate me!!!!!

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  Linny
  July 18, 2012 at 10:56 am
  
  Victor…You big POS…
  
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  Dave
  July 18, 2012 at 10:59 am
  
  You got quite the ego there Victor
  
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  Niko
  July 18, 2012 at 11:00 am
  
  Victor, when you get all “Hugh Heffner” like in a few years and your sac is hittin the floor, Miss Young thing gonna find her a young wooden soldier. Fool!
  
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    ou812
    July 18, 2012 at 12:00 pm
    
    hahahaha Funny s#@t! Niko!
    
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  antkids3
  July 18, 2012 at 11:00 am
  
  Wow…Victor, you’re a douche. Thank God you’re not exemplary of most men I know who understand what love and commitment are—and who value growing old with their partners. I have a feeling you’re going to learn what the word “Karma” really means…hopefully, at some point, your young girlfriend will tell you that YOU”RE too old for her (probably won’t be that long from now, as she’s “half” your age. ) Just “biology taking it’s course”….
  
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  Destiny
  July 18, 2012 at 11:04 am
  
  I’ve dated old men. Aside from the fact their not nearly as attractive as young guys and their lack of sexual stamina (not lasting long enough, erectile dysfunction, etc.) it was fine. But nothing’s better than a hot, smooth skinned, man in his prime…I have daddy issues and the old guys fulfill that, but that doesn’t take away the craving for handsome younger guys.
  
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    Juan
    July 18, 2012 at 11:35 am
    
    Is this Destiney from Whitney?
    
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  Jo Jo
  July 18, 2012 at 11:05 am
  
  Victor, you are an idiot of major proportion
  
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  For certain
  July 18, 2012 at 11:15 am
  
  Victor, Of course it could be she thinks you have money, it could be she has a low sex drive since you are twice her age, and it could also be the fact that you are just too full of yourself and aren’t telling the truth. Get over yourself and if this is true ask what she is doing chasing after an old man.
  
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  Debc2
  July 18, 2012 at 11:23 am
  
  Victor, that’s what girls half your age want you to think cause you older guys do all kinds of special stuff for us that guys our own age can’t afford to do. That’s it in a nut shell. We think older men rot too! We also tease about you when you’re not around.
  
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Sarah
July 18, 2012 at 10:39 am

That’s what he gets for leaving his wife because he couldn’t see beyond the blonde hair.

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koala
July 18, 2012 at 10:39 am

Reminds me of the Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz marriage!

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Jan Cook
July 18, 2012 at 10:33 am

I have lived with an addict…it is very tough to daily see one like that. No matter, if he had a wondering eye….her actions have caused these problems. Her kids have lived in a horrible household with their mom being an addict.

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  e.clarke
  July 18, 2012 at 10:53 am
  
  Jan it is a “wandering” eye! Don Johnson cheated on her too. Her MOM is the beautiful actress “Tipi Hedrin”. I don’t know what is wrong with Melanie but one of my all time favoirtes is and always will be “Working Girl”. She was great in that. I like all of her stuff. She needs to get her act together or she will just lose everything. If she is so much in LOVE with the jerk she would do just that. I never liked him in his movies, but it seems it just should be expected in that rat hole in Ca.
  
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Linda Barr
July 18, 2012 at 10:32 am

Remember that there is people like myself are praying everyday for you.May God bless you and your family. Remember that God love you both first.

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Bonnie
July 18, 2012 at 10:24 am

I think his wandering is not the cause. I think it is the result of living with that all these years!!!

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  Elisabeth Dakak
  July 18, 2012 at 10:33 am
  
  We do not divorce because a wife has burned a meal.
  We do not divorce a man because he lost his job.
  Marriage is an important commitment.
  
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SusieQ
July 18, 2012 at 10:17 am

Griffith is an ex-heroin addict and pillhead, and the plastic surgery she has had on her face and the lip fillers have ruined her face. I have been reading for years that she is very jealous, and clingy, and there is so much a man can take. On the other hand, he left his Spanish wife for Griffith, so what did she expect? Once a cheater, always a cheater.

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  Smartlady
  July 18, 2012 at 10:28 am
  
  Gee, thanks for the uplifting message, Susie.
  
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  Betty
  July 18, 2012 at 10:45 am
  
  I tend to agree on the once a cheater, always a cheater theory.
  
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Isabella
July 18, 2012 at 10:15 am

Sad, because this seemed to be a solid hollywood couple. I hope they can mend their differences and save the marriage.

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