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How many people are enlightened in this world? Only a few. Why? It is because we are taught how to BE loved, instead of love oneself. When one does not love himself, there is NO love.

Missing this simple concept creates ALL the problems we have in this world. The concept is "Everyone is DIFFERENT and Everyone is EQUAL".

So, what are the majority of people? We are all INSECURE, which means all ABUSIVE. Any thoughts of COMPARISON and SUPERIORITY over certain people (age, race, looks, education, money, materials, etc.) are the forms of abusiveness.

Dr. Vaknin has HIS own opinion, only ONE opinion. Just think about this. YOU heard something YOU didn't want to hear, which is a disagreement, obviously you have a DIFFERENT opinion. Then, why do you need to COMPARE your opinion to his opinion to figure out whose opinion is 'right' and whose opinion is 'wrong' while everyone has a different opinion?

Do you see that this is why 'abuse' never ends? It is because seeking 'right or wrong' is an illusory; does not exist.

Do you know why you judge? It is because you want agreements; you want everyone to think like YOU. Then do you realize that you are indeed looking for YOURSELF? Why? It is because you do not validate yourself as an individual; one Self. You are not sure if your opinion is right or wrong, so that you want to BE validated by others.

When you accept yourself; you have your opinion but only YOUR opinion, you have your feelings/emotions but it is YOURS, and you have YOUR choice of actions, then everything resolves.

When you truly understand "love", crimes, greed, fame, competition, comparison, judgments, complaints, gossip, etc. all DISAPPEAR. Isn't it kind of the world you want to live in?

Don't you want 'serenity' and 'peace' in your mind?
Don't you want to be loved unconditionally?

Now, can you start THINKing what is true?
All the answers are in YOU.

i agree, i don't know about this wikipedia thing, but vaknin's writing's on narcisissm have been invaluable in helping me heal from childhood trauma and abuse

Too many big words flying around for my uneducated mind to handle. But I do know a few things about NPD and will never be the same again thanks to the education of a wonderful life. I saw felt, touched, loved, cared, hated, angered and wanted to rip the skeleton out of NPD at one time or today. In so much as I know NPD, I know Mr. Vaknin.

How do I know Ph.D. Vaknin? No not college, as I didn't even go so far as to a questionable college or take a questionable major. If Mr. Vaknin went to an unaccreditaded college, I would find that to be more truer than if he had graduated from Harvard.

He has NPD Jason... Read his work, maybe you will understand him a little better. You have now been welcomed into the world of having dealt with the nature of the beast he is trying to, in my opinion, rid himself of through his work in detailing out what he "knows"...

Or, he just wants to have the world see his work and you, Wikipedia, the "idiot" who created or sold him a slow internet connection on any given day may all meet the condition at one time or another. I'm no apologist, but if the man had Downs Syndrome and said the "SOX Suck", you probably would smile and say "they sure do!" Unlike how you would respond to the guy sitting at the end of the bar on baseball night, no?

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