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While it may not be surprising that something you post on your Facebook wall could get you in legal trouble, it may surprise you that a judge has ordered a man to post something on his wall or to face jail time.

Should the court hold such power? Tell us what you think in the comments.

According to court records in Cincinnati, Ohio, Mark Byron was charged with and found guilty of civil domestic violence against his wife, Elizabeth Byron in June 2011. Elizabeth was granted a temporary protection order and primary custody of their son. Mark was allowed supervised visits with their son twice a week. He has appealed that conviction, and the appeal is still processing. A divorce between Mark and Elizabeth is also in the works.

Then, in November, 2011, Mark posted to his Facebook wall:

“If you are an evil, vindictive woman who wants to ruin your husband’s life and take your son’s father away from him completely — all you need to do is say that you’re scared of your husband or domestic partner and they’ll take him away!”

Mark’s wife was blocked from his Facebook page, but somehow she saw the posting anyway. She then filed a motion with the court saying that Mark had violated the protection order, which stated that Mark was prohibited from “causing plaintiff or the child of the parties to suffer physical and/or mental abuse, harassment, annoyance or bodily injury.”

A magistrate agreed, and ruled that Mark Byron pay a $500 fine and spend 60 days in jail.

That all seems pretty cut and dried. The surprising part is what the magistrate did next.

He composed a written apology for Byron, which he wrote into the sentence. And, he ordered that Byron could, at his choosing, post that apology to his Facebook wall for 30 days in lieu of his 60-day sentence.

The magistrate-written apology reads:

“I would like to apologize to my wife, Elizabeth Byron, for the comments regarding her and our son [name withheld] which were posted on my Facebook wall on or about November 23, 2011. I hereby acknowledge that two judicial officials in the Hamilton County Domestic Relations court have heard evidence and determined that I committed an act of domestic violence against Elizabeth in January 17, 2011. While that determination is currently being appealed, it has not been overturned by the appellate court. As a result of that determination, I was granted supervised parenting time with [our son] on a twice weekly basis. The reason I saw [our son] only one time during the four month period which ended about the time of my Facebook posting was because I chose to see him on only that single occasion during that period. I hereby apologize to Elizabeth for casting her in an unfavorable light by suggesting that she withheld from me or that she in any manner prevented me from seeing [our son] during that period. That decision was mine and mine alone.

I further apologize to all my Facebook Friends for attempting to mislead them into thinking that Elizabeth was in any manner preventing me from spending time with [our son], which caused several of my Facebook Friends to respond with angry, venomous, and inflammatory comments of their own.”

Do you think the magistrate was right to offer this as a condition to avoid jail? Tell us in the comments.

While onlookers are voicing First Amendment concerns over the sentence…

A reminder that you only have the right of free speech when a judge says so: http://t.co/XTpaNFDP 3 hours ago via TweetDeck ·  Reply ·  Retweet ·  Favorite · powered by @socialditto

…a court ordering a public apology when a defendant has been found guilty is not new. In one instance, involving the Rockmore company in Massachusetts in 2010, the court assessed a fine of $300,000 and ordered the company to purchase full-page ads in the Salem News and Boston Herald to publicly apologize for dumping human waste in area harbors and rivers from its 59-foot ferry. The ongoing behavior was uncovered when an assistant harbormaster following the ship suddenly found his own vessel engulfed in sewage. The court-ordered apology read:

“We, the Rockmore Company, sincerely apologize for contaminating the coastal waterways of Massachusetts. Our business operations include ferry service along the North Shore aboard the Salem-based P/O Hannah Glover and a lunch and dinner barge in Salem Harbor called the P/O Rockmore. Our company has discharged human waste directly into coastal Massachusetts waters. For these actions, we have paid a steep fine and have pleaded guilty to criminal charges. We are sorry. – The Rockmore Company”

The goal of such high-profile “name and shame” apologies is to deter the same sort of behavior from others in the future. Many times, this sort of tactic is used on a corporation, which has no feelings of shame, per se.

The amount of notice garnered by Mark Byron’s case is largely due to the fact that it took place on Facebook, the largest social media site in the world. Actions on Facebook and the real-world consequences thereof, are still being explored in courts and workplaces.

Recently, comments posted to a personal Twitter account by CNN commentator Roland Martin led to his being suspended by the network for a time.

Do you think the “name and shame” tactics work? Tell us your opinion.

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  1. 0 0
    Lucky to be alive

    This man was found guilty and convicted of domestic violence, and violated a restraining order. This guy obviously has issues or he wouldn’t (a) have been convicted (b) not visited with his son when he had the chance and (c) posted this hateful message on Facebook. These judges see thousands of cases, and it is pretty obvious to see the difference between a loving parent and a hateful one.

    My ex-husband terrorized me and my kids, threatened to kill us and tried to, and we are very lucky to be alive. (Oh, and by the way, the first time I tried to get a restraining order, I was denied, so the myth about women getting them automatically is ridiculous. I had to wait until I had proof of his death threats before I got a temporary restraining order)! Even though my ex-husband was convicted and sent to prison for some serious domestic violence, I was amazed how he could con people into thinking that his threats were just a “joke” and that he was somehow the victim of the court system, just like the comments that I read in this post. Important tip: The bad guy with the sob story is not the victim. Amazing how gullible people are.

    I applaud the judge for giving Mark Byron a “choice” to set the record straight, so the guy couldn’t continue to lie to his “friends” on Facebook. Judges deal in facts not crap. Hopefully those “friends” of his are a little wiser and won’t fall for his next sob story. And it sounds like some of them owe the real victim an apology.

    Lucky to be alive.

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    Debby

    I Love it! Think it’s ingenious and the judge is awesome!

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    Jim

    If you take the time to look at Marks comments they do not mention his wife by name. There is no name or detail that would tie the information to his wife directly. It’s merely an opinion. So it has about as much weight as any Confucius quote. This Judge obviously allowed his personal opinion to cloud his judgement, especially considering that his wife was blocked from the content on his site. How she got a hold of the content seems to be questionable is the first place. The punishment certainly does not match the crime in this case on either side. I’m disappointed but unfortunately not shocked.

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  4. To follow up on my earlier post, I haven’t touched an American female in over 20 YEARS… And many of these posts made by American females tells the reason why. Females from the US are known to make the worse wife. As one Florida attorney told me over 35 years ago, “It’s the Screwing you get for the Screwing you got”… I did not think he was funny then and he is less funny today. I am So glad to be out of the US where I now experience True Freedom from the Tax-Man and that legal system… Check out the ExPats Philippines group on Linked-in.

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  5. I would do the jail time…

    I am So Glad to be Out of the USA. I have more freedoms in the Philippines than I ever experienced in the US…

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    michaels

    I would have given him 30 days in jail along with the making him apoligize on facebook…Why are people so ignorant…
    People need to be more mindful so much ignorance Right speech People Right Speech

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      Jim

      How was that comment ignorant? Did I miss reading something? Since you used the word Ignorant, I feel its important for you to realize that his comments are the inverse of ignorant. For his comments to be ignorant or for him to be ignorant he would by definition have to have no knowledge of the subject. He has direct knowledge and lets face it the courts are commonly taking these complaints during divorce proceeding. Between 1975 and 1995, the total yearly number of child abuse reports grew from 600,000 to over 3 million after the child abuse protection legislation that Senator Mondale sponsored. The passing of this legislation has also resulted in the increase of allegations of child abuse in divorce battles. The courts are used like a tool by women. A large portion of these reports only come up during the divorce proceedings. Its out of control. I actually know a man that had to go through a children and youth investigation because a woman anonymously reported that he was taking his 2 year old to night clubs. Sounds ridiculous but its fact.
      60 days in Jail for a FaceBook post. Being forced to post a staged apology to FaceBook everyday? Really. This is yet another ridiculous case blocking up the judicial system and at what cost. We spend thousands of tax payers’ dollars on this man while he sits in jail. Its feels similar to sending someone to Jail for ripping off one of those tags on a Mattress or Couch.

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    Dan

    Sound like a violation of our first amendment rights to express our opinion about laws and legal procedures. Bring in the Gestapo and the KGB.

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    Michelle

    I do not believe in utilizing shame as a behavioral motivator or tool. That said, I would also not classify this as shaming. I see it as an opportunity for taking responsibility, something it would seem from this man’s public outburst that he would indeed benefit from learning.
    This man opened the door by using Facebook as his venting platform in the first place. The judge did indeed give him a choice. I concur with the judge’s offerings, and do not see this as Nazi like oppression at all. Having to be self responsible for your own issues with anger and abuse is a good thing.

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      Jim

      Public outburst? This is not a public place where others have no choice but to listen. This is a person giving an opinion, I might add one not directly connected to his X-wife in any way. This is a social media site one which someone has to chose to follow someone or request being in the loop. This would be comparable to asking someone for a car ride then complaining about the conversation in the car. His wife was blocked from the content.
      This case is a typical case. Women who report abuse during a divorce have better chances of getting financial gains and getting control over the kids. These same women who suddenly report abuse, have usually never reported any kind of abuse during the span of the marriage.

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    Shane Phillips

    This is laughable at best. People use their Facebook pages to vent all the time. If I were him i’d just deactivate my profile for a couple of months and flatly refuse to make the post. His wife does sound like a nasty and vindictive person, and it disturbs me to see men being treated unfairly in situations like this more and more often these days. It seems most countries legal systems assume that women are delicate flowers that cannot do any wrong.

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    Jennifer

    So since the man posted what he was feeling personally about the situation he is punished? Sounds like to me he was posting his OPINION about how he felt. If that is the worst thing the man felt he could say i think his wife should develop a bit more of a callous on her psyche. Not to mention if she was banned from his Facebook page she was obviously fishing for something to get him on by looking from someone else’s account. i think the judge should take another look. Freedom of speech is a right that should be taken more seriously by this judge!

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  11. NO! This is one more incident – destined to become a layer – of KAK God-Playing-on-Government-Payroll! Unfortunately these kinds of encroaching idiocies will stop when the last perpetrator is shoveled under.

    Wasn’t it Voltaire who wrote to the effect, “… there will be peace on earth when we strangle the last king with the guts of the last priest!” ??? And long before the effects of Marx & Murdering Idiots had total control of the stage ………

    General Bobby Farrell
    That Damned Akurian

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    Betty

    what happened to freedom and the right to speak our minds?? whent to far with this one

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    Merrlyn

    Most importantly, the sentence was given FIRST. The Facebook apology was an OPTION to the 60 days.

    And yes many men get creamed in court; but ALSO many men ACT as if they’d been creamed, when, of their own choosing, they deny themselves the right to see their children just so they can blame their spouse/ex-spouse. I’ve seen this in action so many times, from both sides it’s not funny anymore.

    Sometimes there is no balance in these court cases. But I’ve seen both genders use their children as weapons against each other and the real losers are their children …

    If he loves his son, let him take his lumps – deserved or not – so he can prove his love is greater than his angst.

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    Catharine Kent

    Sounds like a GOOD deal! The letter was professionally worded and states exactly what he did… Mislead others into thinking SHE was to blame

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    Freeman

    yes, the judge was right as the main purpose of the justice is to realise the guilty of his wrongful action & to correct him.This is a better way of correcting him to apologise to his wife on the same medium he used to harass her.In jail he would have done nothing to improve the present situation viz a viz his wife.

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  16. The judge should absolutely have no authority to force a person to post anything on his facebook account or anywhere else, period.

    Constitutional rights say you can write what you want. If you harm another, well then, you can pay the price, i.e., a fine or days in jail.

    On the flip side, you also have the right NOT to write what you DON’T want. It’s outrageous how judges take the authority they are entrusted with and think, “I’ll make him apologize in writing!” as if he were the judge’s child!

    The judge stepped over the line.

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    Dan

    This is a tough one. It is true, though, that all a spouse/partner has to do, is say that the other abused them. It could just be verbally. Sometimes it is physical, too. Question – What provoked the incident? And, how serious/mild were the physical injuries? In these sorts of cases, somebody always loses, and it isn’t always the party that may be lying.
    My opinion is that there is no good reason to apologize on Facebook for the incident, admitting guilt to the charges, especially when the case is being appealed. The spouse/partner could just as easily have posted something on her own Facebook account. Why not?
    Whether it’s on Facebook or in person, people will always talk, and always put their 2 cents’ worth in. It doesn’t mean they think before inserting foot in mouth. Or, even if they’re right, their emotions many times unnecessarily run rampant.
    Let’s face it, no matter what we say or do, there’s always going to be someone who won’t like you. That goes for the accuser and the accused as well.
    My suggestion, get the divorce, get over what was done, and move on. The judge should’ve stayed clear of Facebook. What the man did shouldn’t have been unexpected, although it’s not the best thing. Women also can be the aggressor in domestic abuse cases. So it’s not just limited to men.

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    Frank

    I see nothing wrong with the judges ruling. Mark was in the wrong because of the violence. I would like to knew how he would feel if someone beat him or whatever he did.

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    sandi

    this judge is awesome nasty comments made about someone on their wall should have consequences especially if they are not true. The judge is absoulutly right to do this.

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    Anon

    No, not by a long shot, he was completely out of his mind, with all due respect, the Judge does not have the power to force someone into doing such, and by doing that the poor man was basically forced to post something that was wrong, and, by the Judges order, he violated the terms of the protection order.

    Good luck to this man.

    Signed: A Former Police Offier

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    Brad Angell

    It sounds to me like a dictatorship if I ever saw one. Furthermore, Fathers have never had any rights what so ever. Why do you think so many vindictive women use the kids as weapons against the fathers.
    Because the courts condone it. My prayers are with both parties. Stop letting Satan rule your life. That goes for the Government too. Amen

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    Sarah

    Don’t you think that there are a whole lot of facts that no one knows about? Perhaps the woman was blocked from his account, but how old is his son? Does his son have facebook, and can see what his father says…his father who apparently has opted to not take advantage of child/parent visitation? Is everyone that is saying the judge is wrong to require this, saying that this woman is outright lying? That she has absolutely lied and given no evidence of domestic abuse? Is that what this is about? Is everyone that has posted on this know this couple and their case personally? I’m just saying, it’s very easy to judge and start blaming other people for problems, when maybe people should just be responsible for their own behavior, and accept the consequences.
    Everyone keeps going on and on about free speech, but there has never been a time of freer speech, than now. Read a book for crying out loud and find out about our American history. Unless all of you are just mad about not being able to beat your wives without negative consequences anymore.. A whole lot of opinions out their without a lot of facts…almost like all of you work for the media or something

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    greg

    I would tell that judge to K M A and 2 go F H. hE WILL BE REMANDED BY THE APPEALS COURT AND i WOULD FILE CHARGES AGAINST HIM. HEY JUDEG, YOU A A FRIGGIN’ IDIOT AND YOU NEED TO GO STRAIGHT TO HELL. IM IN HOUSTON, PUT ME IN JAIL A.h.

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    Spamexterminator

    The court made a few fatal flaws and he could press charges against the judge and have him disbarred. 1st he never mentioned any names in his comment. 2nd it’s not illegal if it is true. Though there is more to it than the mother claiming she is scared of her domestic partner, she would also have to file a police report to discredit his emotional stability(i.e. domestic assault complaint to get P.P.O.) and 3rd he blocked her to prevent her from reading it and she circumvented it, probably by creating a secondary account under a different name which is both her fault and a violation of facebook policies. I really hope he throws the book at that system for it’s flawed policies and strikes a blow in protecting our basic human rights. If they get away with it their just another step closer to taking away your basic freedoms.

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    Joe

    Yeah, always assume the guy is in the wrong. Then Google “kristin ruggiero” to read about the lovely lady who set up her ex (a man serving his country in the Coast Guard) to convicted in April 2008 of criminal threatening, sending obscene material and violating a protective order based on her false allegations. Luckil(after he served 6 months), a Police Chief uncovered the evidence that she framed her ex-husband Jeff Ruggiero, having him jailed for threats she said came from him. Kristin had purchased a disposable cell phone and worked it so the threats appeared to come from Jeff. Now she is dead (died in prison on the day her first conviction was upheld), her cop boyfriend is going to prison for helping her, and he is still fighting to regain custody from her family. Family court must be reformed.

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    donny price

    The Judge should be removed

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  27. Absolutely rediculous!!. The government wants to controll every aspect of our lives. It is like forceing you to put a baby in a car seat. We did not have car seats like they have now when our baby was small. Don’t get me wrong, I think kids should be put in car seats. I just think the government shouldn’t have the right to force us to do things that don’t concern them.

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      ProtectTheInnocent

      It’s the government’s job to protect those who cannot protect themselves. A baby doesn’t have the ability to put himself in a carseat, so the government is right to try to force the parents to do it.

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  28. Magistrates have the right to select the correct punishment or action that will achieve the desired outcome. If this Judge felt that would be more humbling for this guy to apologize to Facebook friends in such a public way, then so be it. In former times, people were publicly ridiculed as part of punishment, and this is a tit for tat situation. He probably should have added some community service to the sentence!

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      Dan

      Patty, did you read that he’s appealing? What if the conviction gets overturned? And more often than not, women are favored in these cases, whether they told the truth or lied. I’m not saying this stuff doesn’t happen, and it certainly is sad. But we also don’t know all the details of what did/didn’t happen. The judge should’ve just had the man remove his post. BTW, it isn’t just women who get emotional in these situations.

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  29. The Judge is 100% right,even soft if you had asked.CAUSE THE PAIN WEAR THE SHAME! Wasn’t this adult cyber bullying.
    Kev. (AUST )

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      Dan

      Kev. The guy is appealing his conviction. He was forced to write that he’s guilty as charged. That is wrong. What if the conviction gets overturned? Whether he truly is guilty or not, the comment itself sounds more emotional than anything else. And while bullying is part of society, and I don’t agree with it in general, let’s not get too emotional about that. This wasn’t bullying, unless you take everything to heart.

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    kevin

    If she was blocked from seeing it, then its an indirect message of hurt. Im sure they share many friends, colleagues, family etc on Facebook. The ruling would prevent him making negative comments to all these people, not just to his wife. Rightly so! However, come on! its not as if he used her name in vain, used bad language, threatened anyone. It just doesn’t seem that bad a comment. The REAL outcome here should have been either absolutely nothing…or…if the comment does violate a law……a warning. Take it off Facebook, and dont make any more comments. Not from a judge though. It shouldnt have got that far. Who decided that the said comment justified a court appearance? Personally, i think there must be more to this….maybe the guys reputation precedes him …or he did actually say more….or he was warned because of other comments. Anyone friends with him on Facebook yet?. Me neither.

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    Mike

    The judge was way out of line… end of story…
    His forced apology was an infringement of the defendants 1st amendment rights in that free speech means not only can you say what you like (provided it is the truth) without fear of retribution from the government but also that no person can force you to say something that you do not want to say… under any penalty. Additionally, the judge infringed upon the defendants 5th amendment rights insomuch as he forced the defendant to admit his participation in “criminal” activity.
    My humble opinion is that this judge ought to be brought before the bar and disbarred from practicing law – whether a wife states that domestic violence occurs or not – it is still required that evidence is brought forward to prove guilt and since divorce is a civil rather than criminal matter, the judge had no right whatsoever to demand a public written apology and even less right to sentence the man to a custodial sentence for failure to comply with such a demand.

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  32. I think it was great that the judge ordered this!.

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    Patty

    I think it’s perfect! He had a choice. I wish more cases were handled this way for people who are not a danger to society rather than jail time. That doesn’t seem to resolve anything, just makes them more angry and bitter.

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    Steve

    I think this was as wrong as the original post. Who knows the truth either way. I guess if this sets a precedent that will be adhered to, perhaps others will think twice with cavalier their cavalier comments. It’s a new world…

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  35. His crime was causing his wife to be viewed in a poor light and misrepresenting her behavior on facebook after having a court order against doing that. I think the judge could have given him 60 days in jail and was being lenient by offering the option of posting the correct information and apology.

    My take on the judgement is that the judge felt his going to jail for 60 days would not correct the misrepresentation that the wife was subject to by what must have been people she knew while the facebook posting would reach the proper people and expose the man as being an untrustworthy reported of facts about his wife.

    The punishment fit the crime better than any alternative.

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    joe

    little by little they are taking your freedoms away from you. this is not a democracy anymore, it is a dictatorship. the government or the courts are telling you how to live your lives and in many ways what you can say when and where.wake up people, you are loosing your country little by little.

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    Marie

    As a former victim of domestic violence and subsequent harassment, I applaud the magistrate for his decision and his fine writing style. Thank goodness, finally a judge has sided with a woman and her child all the way through. Judge Judy could not have done better.

    My ex shoved me upside down while I was sitting in a chair because he went loco. I dialed 911 just before he yanked the phone out of the wall. I sat on the floor, my things scattered about me, huddled and protecting myself with my hands over my head. He said, “sure, sit still NOW, you b*, where are the car keys?” Then he grabbed my purse and dumped it on the bed in the other room. I said I would get them for him and walked onto the front porch, and 4 very burly police officers were walking up the steps.

    They took us into separate rooms and one officer donned a blue glove and felt the bump on my head and took photos. They asked if I wanted to press charges and I said yes, with some trepidation. They took him away and he spent 3 days in jail. Afterward, he cut off all access to our checking account and I had to move in with my parents. I had filed a restraining order and he continued to harass me by writing letters to my elderly father trying to tell him his side of the story.

    He was only charged with a misdemeanor, as he pleaded down from battery to a lesser battery charge. He had refused to let me fix my car before and had threatened me and I had no way to leave. He was messing around on me and inviting women over to try and get me to do a threesome (unknown to me). When I found out, I went to therapy and he said the therapy was doing me no good because I wasn’t believing him anymore and I should stop doing therapy. Then he just whigged out. I was sitting in the next room, checking my email and he jumped out of bed (this was after he’d downed a few whiskeys) and ran in and slapped my face and shoved me as hard as he could. I flew upside down out of my chair and landed on my head. It happened so fast that I didn’t even register it until several hours later, when I started shaking and had to call an old friend for support.

    So much for a romantic wedding in Scotland. Go figure.

    Several months later, he filed for divorce. Thank goodness. And then I heard he was so relieved because his Thursday evenings were now free and that stupid anger management class was done. I don’t know where he is now – don’t care – but I sure feel sorry for any woman who meets up with him now. So yes, I think it’s the least that man could do, to apologize and the judge was entirely correct in his ruling. Kudos, finally a judge who has some empathy and common sense in this messed up world.

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      Dan

      I get where you’re coming from, Marie. Those must have been some really rough miles for you. The thing is, the guy is appealing his conviction. I’m not asking you to feel sorry for him. But if you look at it in a different light, we really don’t know if what was said happened the way it did or not. If the guy is truly guilty, there should be worse punishment. At this point, though, leave the Facebook part alone. If what he wrote was true, leave it alone. If a lie, then shame on him. But don’t compare your experience to others’ if you don’t know the whole story. It isn’t always that way. (the aggressor, male or female, should at least have enough honor to just leave before things go too far)

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    Valeria Vernon

    The point is that sometimes on Facebook you can find crazy people. This man has posted something that caused ” … Friends to respond with angry, venomous, and inflammatory comments of their own…” Just imagine if one of these friends decided to go beyond words. He has reacted to any wrong she may have done to him by putting her – and HIS son, remember – in a dangerous position. This is violence which might do more harm than a beating. The only way to calm down everybody is what the judge has decided, there is no other way. Many of you seem convinced that his wife is wrong. Whatever she has done – or not done – there is no excuse, this man IS violent.

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  39. The unelected unaccountable judiciary is our secret government. It constructs and administers laws that are created by lawyers in the interests of gaining revenue for the legal proffession it has nothing to do with the welfare of families because it is not constructed by family lobby groups hence the power exerted by this judge.

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  40. 100% agree with the magistrates.

    On the other hand I 100% disagree with Facebook’s policy of allowing pictures showing serious personal injuries, pictures of drugs in people’s possession, but removing pictures of women breastfeeding and fine art nudity..

    Perhaps a magistrate would like to tell Facebook that that is wrong.

    But I doubt anyone would dare take Facebook on.

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    Missing my Own Kids

    What gets me is that the judge and the wife think that his son wasn’t really taken from him because, after all, they do allow him two supervised visits per week.

    Let me tell you from experience, two visits per week is not at all satisfying. Each visit only serves to remind you of what you’ve lost. Add to that the shame and embarrassment of your child thinking that you need to have someone watching you or else you will hurt him and I can see why the father may have passed on the privilege.

    Advice to fathers: you’d better do whatever the mother of your children asks you to do. Wash the dishes. Pick up your dirty socks off of the floor. Put the cap back on the toothpaste…because any one of these offenses is all she needs. She can take your children away from you, and don’t believe she won’t.

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    Humanitarian

    This is f***ed up.

    A forced apology is not a sincere apology. Forcing apologies can result in dishonest apologies.

    The judge’s attitude: ‘We have declared you guilty, therefore you must admit your guilt or be punished’.

    This is the kind of crap that happens in third world dictatorships.

    What is meant by freedom of speech, is the freedom to express your views. Forcing someone into saying that they have a particular view, when they don’t, goes against free speech.

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    Ralph Stegall

    This just another example of justice going too far in their interpretations of case law. And to me it seems to be another case of the judge trying to make a name for themselves. What that is saying is that you do not have any recourse to fight back concerning a case that has more than normal ramifications. It is getting to where nothing especially your first amendment rights are sacred.

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    PlvsVltra

    This is one of the most retarded events I have ever heard for.

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    Chris

    Awesome!

    He had an order against him – all he had to do was follow it. It’s not like the judge pulled a random “you must post on facebook“. He gave the option of cleaning up what he himself created. I’m sure if he had sent 100 emails or letters the judge would have told him to clean up via emails or letters.

    It’s the same thing as people complaining about speeding fines. Don’t speed – don’t get fined. Don’t break an order that is against you – don’t get in any more trouble. Simple really.

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    A Mom

    NO WAY should that judge have been able to do that. My son is a victim of a b**** like her and has lost custody of my grandchildren to a drug addicted stripper who lied and said he abused her. Why these judges (men) continue to give power to the lying b****es is beyond me. Oh, except that we found out that our judge goes to her strip club and they go into the back rooom…could be there’s more to this story too.

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    Dennis

    This is a pretty easy out for someone who is obvious narrow minded and short tempered. Unfortunately, his actions was a common means of revenge against a divorcing spouse. All personal and no regard for the concerns of the children. If he were to post it, then he would at least be exposed to concerned, adult thinking (should he also read what is being said).

    In my opinion, if he can’t act mature, and set a good example for his kids, then he’ll probably choose an ill-thought way to jail.

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    Don

    We should take it back to the day where women stayed in the kitchen and was seen and not heard

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      Kevin

      and maybe we could go back to the days when people learned the correct third person past form of the verb “is.” but i guess that was still post-neanderthal so that doesn’t really count as far as you’re concerned…

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        Grammar Police

        ‘Was’ is third person past. It’s just not the correct form for third person plural in the past. Besides, neither ‘was’ nor ‘were’ are forms of the verb ‘is’. All are forms of the verb ‘to be’.

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    Phyllis

    We all should take a close look at this situation. This is America and this guy should be able to say what he wants without being forced by a court offical to post HIS beliefs. I say if the magistrate wanted to get his opinion out he should have written an article and posted it to the web without forcing someone to write his opinion and affix their name to it. This is OUTRAGEOUS for a court offical to act like a ganster forcing someone to do such a thing, he should be fired!! Everyone knows the family courts are usually ugly it’s the job of the magistrate or judge to make them better not add to the sorrow of all parties involved.

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  50. Seems totally fair to me.
    Think twice before posting, FB is a public place, we all know it.

    “If you are an evil, vindictive woman who wants to ruin your husband’s life”… while the appeal is still processing, it has no sense.

    Lucky he got this option.

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